Should I just pay the 20 to see her again, maybe get that closure thing I heard about

Long story short we made out like 3 years ago never talked about it afterwards. 4 months ago we got in contact, two months ago we slept together once, last weekend she threw a party at my nice house for a friends.

In some way I think of her as a pro and that this was all for the nice house but I know that not true. I gave her permission before we had sex and she likes her boyfriend who went to college and since things have been dicey.
I don't know why I never bring it up, mostly it's because I know I will see her at the party and I don't want it to awkward. That and I can't really be in a relationship with her, I mean maybe if went head over heels but it's not worth just for sex so I've not been asking the real questions. At the party she was not flirty and talked about her college boyfriend, clear signals.

She said she left a twenty in the bed she slept with, I can't find it but a twenty not to hard to "find" I'm curious about what went wrong, if friendship is worth it to try to keep, and why she slept with me or did she ever like me? But lying and giving her money seems like a stupid thing to do, of course if I'm the only one to know about it then it's not so bad. But it's over, is closure worth it?

 

She said she left a twenty in the bed she slept with, I can't find it but a twenty not to hard to "find" I'm curious about what went wrong, if friendship is worth it to try to keep, and why she slept with me or did she ever like me? But lying and giving her money seems like a stupid thing to do, of course if I'm the only one to know about it then it's not so bad. But it's over, is closure worth it?




^doesnt make sense...explain better

 

.. there is no way she will give you closure - that must come from within.

Honestly, from what you've said it sounds like it was all rather casual on her end, and you just fell for her.

 

I think you're ok to be careful, only then should respond to how her feel things like the way the bed slept with her.

 

I agree with Duck. And don't give the hussy $20 bucks!

 

So she's a hooker who wants $20 for the sex but would rather ask for it by saying she lost it in a bed?

Sounds like the kid of girl your mom would like to meet...

Move on and forget her.

 

20 bucks? It's her fault she doesnt know how to keep/handle her money properly. I wouldnt pass on 20bucks cause I didnt borrow it nor did I loose it for her.

 

I didn't really follow either...

 

The 20 in bed not found not your fault should tell her to get fucked. The bed slept with her then robbed her.

 

If u find the 20 return it. If not move on to bigger and brighter things

 

really, everyone else in this thread knows what the OP was trying to say? i'm completely stumped.

i came into this thread thinking he was considering buying a second lap dance, but then i read several incoherent paragraphs of some guy talking to himself instead.

 

If money disappeared in bed it must be in some orifice.