Hello! I found "The Hip Forums" like 1 month ago, and it became my favorite thing to read on the internet.[/SIZE] So my case.... I am 20 years old, and never had any kind of relationship with girls. I have been thinking for months....I wanted to come up with a reasonable explanation for this, but still I wasnt able to find anything at all. In the summer I was trying to get into a relationship like 5 times and still failed. The First Attempt:There was a girl in the high school, not too ugly, but neither a model figure. She was really nice to me, and it was a really rare to know a girl who is nice to me. I was a little confused, kind of scared, didnt know what to do. I made a little distance between her and me. I had to leave my school, because I went to Italy to practice the language, for like 8 months. In the last day I confessed my love to her, and it was kind of awkward, because I never said to no one this. In the end I received was a hug. The time passed, I returned in my country, and made a call. We ve met, and we had a discussion, but my confession wasnt mentioned at all,in the other hand "she" began to explain that "she" is going to meet her new boyfriend who is 40 years old. (What I felt after that? This was one of my greatest wtf moment in my life!) The age is sure strange, but that wasnt my problem at all, my problem was that she is the only girl who I confessed to, and this is what I get?Atleast she would say fuck of or anything else.....) The Second Attempt:I was on acid, and I made a fool of myself. I was kicked out of the girls room. She is anime fan, and I wanted to "seduce" her while we were watching the new Naruto movie. (What I felt after that? When I came down from acid, I hated myself and was really depressed, but that wasnt real emotion just a stupid sideffect) The Third Attempt: A russian girl.When the first time I saw her she was kind of shy, and I liked that. So there is a dutsch guy, famous and stuff,and he could always get all the girls without putting much effort into. The Russian girl and The Dutsch guy made out the second day in a pub. I was so fucking angry,and disappointed, but never give up I thought. So I tried to approach her, and it wasnt such a complete failure like the second attempt, we talked a lot, on the internet, we have met for like four five times out of the school. But I wasnt able get a kiss from her. She considered me as a friend, I think. (What I felt?This was a breakdown for me, this time I really hated myself, there is nothing worse than being beaten by the one who you despite the most) The last 2 attempts are not that important to mention, but you can guess how did end those. Before my attempts, I really hoped that one day there would be a girl who is attracted to me but it never happened. And now I just dont care, I dont find no one that attractive, to make a move. Everyone around me thinks, that I am strange because, I dont have the will to get laid or something. Why I dont feel the urge to have a girlfriend?Whats the problem with me?
1st girl: sounds like she has daddy issues 2nd girl: probably prefers 'Ghost In the shell' 3rd girl: sounds promiscuous My advice is still talk to girls and continue to attempt to make moves (preferably not on acid) but don't invest yourself emotionally right away. I am sort of having girl troubles as well at the moment so keep your head up and you're not alone.
Just be more outgoing, laid back. Don't think about it too much, it isn't that big of a deal. A girl isn't going to want to get with a dude that is only thinking (or appearing to only think) about sex. Let it come about naturally instead of forcing the situation into play. -Actually...just don't be a sleaze bag haha
Thanks for the advice. Usually I am not that type of guy, who only wants to have sex with the girl. With the russian girl I wanted prove myself that I am on the same level with dutsch guy. The only thing that I wanted to have a kiss from her. I actually worked for it.
you certainly live in a melting pot... you might as well give up on expecting a straight answer out of a woman. it just doesn't happen. and never hit on someone while you're tripping. that just sounds awful.
"confessing your love" to a girl is one of the worst ways to get in their pants. And the easiest way to scare them away.
post a pic of yourself, i wanna see what u look like. i doubt any girl hasnt been attracted to u and they r prob just shy. and if u really want sex then just buy a hooker for like $150
