Would it be cheating on my girlfriend if I...

It's cheating. Even in an open relationship this can cause problems. It doesn't happen the way it does in the movies. Gotta choose who you like more and stick with it.

Best of wishes!

 

okay so then tell me if what i've been doing so far has been cheating? She doesn't know it, but sometimes i'll let these two guys watch me on webcam jerking off and riding a suction cup dildo...

 

Are you being honest to the person you are in a relationship, sharing your life with?

Yes or No... it is that simple...

 

idk. i guess i wouldn't call it DIShonesty. I just started doing it not long ago and to be honest i'm a bit sexually frustrated in our relationship and we've talked about it yet there aren't any results

 

If you found out your girlfriend was playing with herself on cam with someone else... would YOU consider it cheating?

As for you not talking to her yet.... so you have been more honest and open with strangers on the net, then you have with the person you are sharing your life with...

Does that seem right to you?

 

It's clearly "cheating" and the definition isn't really up to you to determine - it's up BOTH of you to define as part of a healthy relationship. All of this is MUCH easier to say than do -but I think the overall advice has been, "talk to her about it". Many women find the notion of guy-on-guy action hot.

All of that having been said, there's still something utterly facinating and arousing about the excitment of cheating for some people. It's the same thrill you got playing hide-and-seek as a kid. There's risk, excitement and huge payoff if you manage it - complete with big risks if you fail. That danger can add an element of excitement that's impossible to get in a stable pair-bond.

Exploring your sexuality is key to a settled soul - IMHO - so you'll need to sort out how to endulge your curiousity. I'm struggling with the same thing and the biggest detractor for me is the risk of disease.

Good luck (lick?) ; )

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Whether it's cheating or not, all boils down to what your girlfriend would think of you doing that. Hence why some people are happy in open relationships, and "swinging" while other people could not do those things. Doing that stuff behind her back though, without her knowledge, is definitely cheating. I'd definitely see it as cheating if a guy I was with was doing that.

 

again all diseases can be contracted from oral! even from masturbation if semen is infected and u have a small cut or even hangnail. this stuff is super microscopic bro!!

 

Be faithful!!

DONT DO IT!!!!!!!

 

Well I don't know if any of y'all are interested anymore but I kinda when through with it but kind of didn't. I went to the house where the two guys live but only one of them was home. We ended up watching porn on the couch together and I came in his mouth. Any thoughts?

 

you could have used your girlfriends mouth for that. at least you giving a blowy condoned a wandering mind somewhat - since i doubt she has a penis.

 

, cheater.

 

LOL I think I like youre assholishness, but it hasnt been directed at me yet, so we'll see.


As for the OP, someone once told me that cheating is anything you do that you wouldnt if your girlfriend was there. I tend to agree.

 

If you talk to your Girlfriend, and tell her your plans then it is not cheating
- You may end without her, but - it wouldn't be cheating
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It's not cheating if she don't find out.

 

That seems to me to be a contradiction in terms.

Cheating, by definition, is a subversive, deceitful activity, so if you openly 'cheat' with the knowledge of the other person, that cannot be considered as cheatng.

To say that it's not cheating if she doesn't find out is like saying that rape isn't rape if you don't get caught.

 

ask her if she would mind or if she wants to join in.