A help to a newfag?

I mean, literally, Im new... During past 4 (nearly 5) years my biggest worry was tell my friends that I like guys but now that most of them already knows that and for the first time in my life Im trying to live who I really am (or who I believe I really am) my worries are things that I never worried about before, like when you are completely straight all you have to know about sex (or all you think you need to know) is that you must use condom but when you are into gay relationships you have to know "how to be clean", how to prevent hemorrhoids and others things so I really hope that you guys could help me with some doubts.

So the first thing I would like to ask is how to shave 'the bush' appropriately?( yes, the balls) Do I need to use some lotion or powder? Can I use a razor or wax or try veet?
I wish I could do this in home once Im not completely out of the closet

If you guys could help me with this things it would make my life so wonderful!:love: And sorry if I couldn't write properly, my english is not that good.

 

Shavin' the sack is pretty easy once you get the hang of it. Some people use scissors, and some people do it with a razor. I recomend the razor because it is more delicate. But, whichever is more convenient for you. Oh, and by the way, I totally support you being a bisexual myself.

 

Thank you very much for the answer acid_tripz222! Now, other question I have in this same hairy topic, but now a bit more naughty (I guess...): Im like one of those bear guys so there is other place where hair can be annoying.. YES! The backdoors. Now I think that it can be a little more difficult since its a hard to reach place and more sensible, plus if I use a razor there I may hurt my partner or even damage the condom. So the solution would be wax?(ouch!) I cant really imagine other better and painless way.

 

my advice is---don't shave it! guys who shave their balls and other parts off look like 11. you go to bed with a man, take his pants off and it's disappointing to see completely bare genitals down there. i don't understand why guys would do it at all. body hair on a guy is fucking sexy.

 

I completely agree with you, however I still want to shave balls, but only then, the rest of the pubic hair I just cut a little because, as I said, Im like a bear guy, so if I shave all my pubic it would just look weird cus I still have my entire body with hair, the only reason I want to shave balls its because makes the oral much better! And its good for your hygiene

 

Not shaving isn't bad for your hygiene, and shaving isn't good for it. All shaving does is make your body hair come back more scratchy and irritating. Not to mention the more you shave now the more hair will grow back in it's place. Don't believe all the hype. Be a proud bear!

Oh and gay dudes don't have to know any more about sex than straight dudes. Put a condom on, make sure they wiped their ass and stick it in (slowly).

You don't have to do anything to prevent hemorrhoids either btw, chill

 

Thanks OhSoDreadful, that was helpful Now I learned a bit more!

So, lets change a little the subject... I just come back of a party and before I went out I shaved my balls and did a little work with clipper in other areas (I just cut a little, not shave) and my partner liked the shaved balls (I did too!) the oral becomes more pleasure. NOW: wile I was trimming my hair I notice some dark areas on my groin... is there something I can do to make it disappear or prevent it? I had never cut or shave hair in this area before, so I can't tell that is because the proceeding of shaving...

You guys are help me so much :love:

 

dark areas? like a birth mark? No, you can't get rid of that. It will be with you the rest of your life. Learn to love your body and all of it's "imperfections" dude

 

No, its not like a birth mark... I hear that the skin may get dark in some areas of body because of friction (like in the groin, armpit etc) and is possible to care of then with some creams (which I don't know) I wish I could talk it in a more clearly way, but my english is limited :/

 

Don't worry about it, most guys have darker skin around their groin. As for getting rid of it, I've got no idea, it's just standard though really.

 

I'm da same - quite hairy all over, tho not a bear, so if i saved all my pubs it would look strange - so I just shave my balls and my cock and trim the rest a bit narrower. Asto my anus - well lasts time my wife did it in the bath - I wouldn't like too much hair there and it's better for clealiness. U can do it Otto with a mirror and safety razor, no probs.

Simon

 

Shaving: I do all over. Never had a problem with shaving the rear, without a mirror, in the shower. Never had a sensitivity problem or any problem at all. Been doing it every couple of months for years.

Dark patches: Never got them. I knew someone who discovered dark patches after shaving down there, and it's just that that's what he had down there. It wasn't a problem, and they didn't bother me. In fact, I thought they were kind of cool. lol. Random quirky things I like.

What's your native language? Love languages!

 

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I see wut u did there.