My 12 years old bro smoking....

This morning I wake and baked on a gravity and left my stash beside the kitchen sinks where i filed the bong. Being high i forgot to pick the stash back up. now my 12 years bro comes from school for lunch and I think he might have snatched some.

Mom told me he reeked weed coming back from school and she blames me on smoking beside him...but I know this aint true the lil fucker stole some of my shit.

I dont think he should be smoking at that age....wtf im a terrible bro lol.

 

Well confront him about it.. I started smoking at the age of 12 or 13, and looking back at it now, there's no reason why I couldn't have waited a few years.

Explain to him that it's important to maintain responsibility with his actions - personally starting to smoke at such a young age sort of fucked me over. It was probably just the crowd of stoners that I was hanging out with but for a while after starting to smoke I was letting my academics go to shit due to getting lazy when I was stoned.

Don't approach him with the tone of "I know best because I'm older" because he'll probably just start considering smoking weed to be a good way to stand up to authority.

Overall I think he would be fine smoking at that age as long as he keeps up with his responsibilities and doesn't start smoking shit loads at that age. Keeping an open relationship with him about weed would probably be the best thing to do.. except for telling him how much you smoke yourself right away, of course

 

hehe. when I was in my 20's out the army, these kids I know... 12/13/14/15 would wanna smoke me out... It was some crazy shit., they be like "tell us how to make bombs"..

 

I didn't let my bro smoke till he was 16. I taught him how to be safe and responsible with it and he never got in trouble and did good in school while his stoner buddies didn't fair so well.

 

You're the older brother.... If he doesn't stop just beat him up. It works in every other brotherly situation, so why not with weed? lol

 

It's like sex once you've found it. No one's gonna stop you.

 

This is a good chance to be the good older brother here.

Teach him. Teach him how to smoke right. Teach him to be careful at school. Teach him how not to get caught. Ask him how he's been getting his weed (maybe he get's it cheaper than you). Teach him how to buy-how to be careful.

You can talk to him about how much and how often he smokes and if you think it may not be real good for him at his age. But he is probably going to smoke since he probably already has been.

Go ahead an smoke with him. This is a chance to be real cool with him. Think about if you were in his position.

But most importantly-teach him NOT TO TOUCH YOUR FUCKING WEED.

 

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If he still has a tv show/movie as a scheme for his room he's too young.

 

I still don't think a 12 year old is gonna listen to advice...

 

You were probably just stoned and smoked more than you thought

 

It doesn't hap[en like that. I tried to cover up pinching bud off my dad saying that, it never works.

 

break a finger


theres too many thieves in this world

 

Yeah, let me start harming myself to repent for lifting a bowlpack 6 years ago. He sold a lot of the shit I bought with my own money, so fuck 'em.

 

I was 22 when my 18 year old sister asked me she wanted to try mj for the first time... so I said yes knowing that I had to teach her how to use such an invaluable tool properly, show her the 'illumination' with my guidance.

It changed our entire relationship, our bond strengthened like never before.

 

As long as you're pinching him and he's not pinching you it'd be a pretty cool setup imo

 

my sister stole weed from me once she being 22 and I 19

 

What's the big deal, if my bro took just a little bit of my weed I'd be happy as fuck, new stoner buddy woo-hoo

But yeah it all depends on the maturity of the 12 year old, there's some people I know who are over 20 and there's no way I would smoke them up, and in comparison I've met some pretty fucking cool 13 year old stoners haha. Also myself and most of my friends started smoking heavily around that age and shortly after, and I'd say we're all relatively well-functioning people.

I mean I would certainly be pissed if he took all of it, or if he took a bunch and I didn't have much left or the means to get more, but jeez, if there's anyone I would gladly smoke up or let pinch bud from me, it would be mi familia.

 

When i was 12 i could have smoked and i would have smoked but i was too scared to smoke. I knew my brothers smoked they guys that were trying to get me to smoke actually became good friends with my brothers.... i was really actuallly scared that my mom was going to fi nd out.

Then when i was about 15 i started smoking i guess i wasn't scared anymore and then after quite a long time my mom found out then my brothers found out and my oldest brother was happy about it and he was like "hey jas lets go smoke a blunt!" But the other one isaac was different... he didn't smoke with me or didn't like me smoking with him until i was almost 17.... Then we became really close... they were like the major weed dealers on morgan shitty and they sold weed to like everyone and then i started getting weed through them and isaac and i have been pretty close.



I think when my baby brother gets older like 12 if he wants to smoke i will allow him to smoke depending on his maturity level.... he might be a cool kid.... but if hes a little shit i won't.. maybe i will because if i find out hes interested i am going to tell him to come to me to try it and smoke it cause coming to me or isaac would be more gaurantee he wont get in trouble.

 

tbh, 12 is way to young to be smoking. The critical thinking part of your brain doesn't even fully develop until you are 21...that means that a 12 yo doesn't fully understand the consequenses of smoking. Not to mention, they don't even fully know who they are yet. Imo, someone should learn who they are BEFORE they start warping it.

edit: Then again, it's not like they're going to listen to anybody anyways. I think if I caught my kid smoking I would lay down some serious rules, like only with mom and dad.