I would like to have a honest opinion about this story. Preferably from men.

She's already planning a second :rofl:



Your asking for our judgment of the situation, if our judgment is that you're a slut; it's your fault that you asked.

 

one)you've been lying to your boyfriend
two)you're a cock tease
three)you seem pretty manipulative

maybe you should let both guys go and sit yourself in your time out chair in the corner for a while and think about what you've done.

 

i love hip forums so much ahahah

 

no guy will ever respect a girl that acts like a cheap whore and sucks him off in the bathroom, then goes home to her partner. you're just a hole to fuck.

people like you fucking disgust me.

 

Hi there! I would say you are stuck in a situation where your sexual activities with your bf have become boring. If you want to be with other men just let your boyfriend know. Tell him you feel a desire and have a fetish for having sex with your bf and another guy. If he does accept, expect him to tell the same to you, that he want to have a threesome with you and another girl. Don't lie to him, i'm sure he doesn't deserves it. Despite the fact that is normal to feel attracted to other men, you should have been more conscious of your actions. I mean, a 5 year relationship is just not something you throw in the garbage in order to get laid.

 

Is this who you really want to be? Is this someone your boyfriend deserves to be with?

We shouldn't and can't honestly judge you... but it's time to judge yourself.

You need to stop all contact with this guy, is hurting your boyfriend more what you really want to do? You know its wrong yet your focus is on this other guy and playing head games.

to continue on this course your throwing a lot away and hurting someone your suppose to love...

people get confused, they make mistakes... the good ones correct the mistakes once they figure it out. You need to sort things out and start by stopping this unhealthy behavior with this other guy. You'll have regrets that will haunt you for a lifetime.

 

Her fetish sounds more like a "having-people-on-a-string fetish."

When the other guy made himself sexually available to her, she "refused him" most of the time. Now, that he doesn't call, she wants him again instead of her boyfriend--- who's available to her now.

If she wanted both, she wouldn't refuse either. If she wanted one, she would dump the other. But she seems to want either of them only when they aren't available.

Am I right?

Edit: Unless she "refused" him in order not to compromise her relationship with her boyfriend, but is willing to openly talk to her boyfriend about the guy she "refused."

 

No, he just wants to fuck. You're the one playing games.


Why do girls find it SO easy to lie to themselves?

 

No, you're case doesn't matter. You made a comitment to someone, and you'rew fucking around on them and going through all these fucking mental gymnastics trying to rationilize you're slutish and cruel behavior.

And no one is ever gonna make you think even for 1 second that you might be wrong if that's not what you want to think.

 

it sounds like a girl who's fucking walking home.

 

WAIT! So the only impact this had with you're BF is broke your physical dependance on him? As in he's no longer the only one you're fucking?

Skaaaaaank! Not just a Skaaaaaaank, but a MEAN ass Skaaaaaank

If I saw you at the park or something, I'd probably throw stuff at you until you left.

lol he'll never be with you now that you've skanked you'reself up so blatently in front of him. lol You're not a bring home girl, I'm sorry.

 

Just for the record, I've been both guys in her story. So yeah, I think I'm qualified to judge the situation.

But aside from that, doing a few bad things in your life doesn't make you a bad person. You will always have the choice to be honest and to treat others and yourself more decently. I really hope you choose to do that one of these days. Becasue if you don't change you're behavior... I don't think you're ever going to be happy.

The the others in your life probably wont be either.

 

you sound like a fun piece of 'side-ass' for both those dudes...you should introduce them and get them to double team you...:mickey:


as you can see i took a different direction and am commenting solely on your cheating heart:devil:

 

also...i totally repped out on this thread haha

 

I hope you get herpes and have to explain the sores to your bf.

skeezy hoes should stay out of relationships. oh yeah, they're too weakminded to be alone.

 

I wrote psychical ... and then I even explained the type of PSYCHICAL dependence I had on my bf. Sorry if its rude but looks to me that some of you don't even pay attention to the real meaning of what I am trying to ask here and just enjoy 'throwing things' on a sinner just like you. And I don't believe that there are many people in this world who are really really that innocent as you pretend I should be and , implicitly , yourselves. It is extremely easy to judge and categorise others. The purpose of this post was not to create an opportunity for some to liberate from their frustrations. It was created for the ones that can understand at least the 'forbidden fruit' concept , for those of you who can comprehend the fact that in this world there are hedonistic people. For the ones that can be honest to themselves and accept their inner, dark, and probably unaccepted by society sides. Don't tell me that you are all made out of milk and honey!

 

Sam...please dont call her a skank...i happen to like skanks...this girl deserves a much better moniker.....you are doing all skanks a dis service by puttin op in there

 

You're a child that thinks the "inner dark" or "forbidden fruit" is something cool and that being "hedonistic" is something that elevates you to an adult or more sophisticated status. It doesn't.

It's not that people don't understand what you are asking - they understand perfectly. It's that they recognize a damaged, broken, and immature personality when they see one because they are older and wiser than you. You are one of the people that leaves strife and pain around you. Me saying that may even be feeding your ego in this department.

To be perfectly honest you sound like you have some sociopathic tendencies.

Either way - you're level of intelligence and maturity is so low it almost makes it comedic to try and reason with you or provide advice.

 

a little too much "umph" in that one

 

Fruit...milk...honey? Did you eat dinner before writing this, because it sounds like you missed it!

We all have temptations and nobody is exempt. Some of your wording implies some sort of religious background. If so, then there is the quote "out of the heart the mouth speaks."

What does this mean? When tempted, there are basically three options: You run from it, you entertain it until is overcomes you and fall victim, but see the error and turn away, or it overcomes you and it takes root in your heart.

From what I see, the last option is what has happened to you. What about if everybody acted like this?... gets seduced and essentially discards the one they are with?

What do you look forward to with this new guy? Do you want a sex toy or do you want a relationship? If a relationship is what you want, all I can say it will be stormy and sleazy because it started out that way. As soon as you stop giving him BJs in the men's room he will wonder what is up.

You are the one that raised the bar up so high that he will not be satisfied with anything less. BJs in a restroom stall should come at a time when respect for each other has already been established, so that he does not label you as a slut.

You pushed the cart before the horse, sexually, and I don't see anything but bad news between you and this new dude. Go back to your bf. If he is not the one, then break up. Don't put him through this, you sneaking behind his back and kissing him with cum on your breath. Disgusting.