Girlfriend problems. Anyone want to help me by giving me advice?

So if you want to help me just post and Ill explain everything.

 

lets hear it! i'll give it a go

 

Alright Don't think I am weird or anything. But first I just want to ask a couple questions before I actually get into it.

Why do I feel like I like a girl alot and don't want to leave her(cause were dating) and wanna see her and be with her. But then I am always questioning my self like If i really like her or if I wanna be with her. Cause listen I have been talking this girl for 6 months just recently NOV 5 we started dating while she was out of town at her moms house. I haven't ever chilled with her in person when we started dating till recently. But I knew of her for 10 years. But just recently we decided to meet up and get a hotel room and spend the night with each other. It was great and awesome night it felt really good at the time we chilled took A Couple roxys and smoked some green and drank a 40. Then kinda just chilled and Cuddled through the rest of the night It was nice. But then the next day she had to leave which was sad. But anyways Back to whats wrong with me. I Have feelings for her And I don't want to leave her I want to be with this girl And be happy. But I hate my self for for questioning if I really like her. Its like The word like isn't a word anymore. I don't know what this feeling I have for her is. I mean I only chilled with her once And I could of never left that room I would of stayed in there forever with her. And I know I like her Cause I don't dislike her. I Don't want to say to her it wont work out and I don't like you anymore cause it ain't true. Could it be from only seeing her once and me just wanting her so bad that I am going crazy IDK? Maybe one day with her wasn't enough To really get to know how she is. I just get so mad at my self for feeling this way Before we chilled everything was so good I Could happily say I liked her sooooo much And I still feel like I do But I act stupid and always questioning things. Do you think I just want to be around her?

 

I just need someone to put me in my right mind. And tell me whats wrong with me. It aint that I don't want to be with her tho. Like shes sweet as fuck nice and honest and wouldn't ever fuck me over. I mean I payed money for a room for us and now I am buying a ticket to go see her at her moms. I just hope I can feel normal again when I see her

 

Ask any questions you'd like.

 

its probably just a situation of wanting what you cant have. I'm assuming you've been pretty into the idea of her for a while, right? But the night you spent together she became more than an idea, and sometimes its hard for people to live up to a fixed idea in someone's head. You should just give it time. If you enjoy being with her, then just make plans to be with her again and let things unfold naturally. Ignore those nagging thoughts when you aren't around her and base everything on how you feel when you are with her.

 

Yes for a while A long while it seems. And I get exactly what you are saying. What you say actually helps me a lot. Thank You!

 

I just wish I could feel how I feel when I with her when I am not with her. Just the comfort of having her beside me and holding her and all that its just such a nice feeling.

 

damn, i was going to say no...

serious post-formatting issues. beyond that, i don't necessarily see anything.

 

Sorry you was too Late :/


dat's wat happns wen yu qwit skewllll.

 

I think your feeling like this because you dont know for sure if she is feeling the same way about you and i think you would feel so much better if she expressed how she feels about you. and wheather she feels the same when shes not with you.
Because your not sure how she is feeling you could just be thinking of the worst. and then because of this, even though you know you want to be with her, your just questioning yourself about wheather or not you really want to be with her.

What i think is you know you want to be with her. otherwise you wouldnt be writing this. To put your mind at rest you need to figure out a way to know if she is feeling the same. only way to do this is to spend more and more time with her. sooner or later you will know then wheather she wants you the same.!
Then i think your mind will be at rest then
hope this helps.