usually its insecurity.. several times i did ask a friend to get his opinion. but i never was searching for a compliment. dating or not. if i think a girl's pretty, ill say it, even say "she has a nice body"
Thank god there are more people out there who do that. Ha, I have NO problem letting him know when I find someone attractive and he has no problem doing the same. Sometimes we'll argue with each other it over it and then I tell him his taste sucks. Which leads to jokes at my expense. Gah, it's fun.
Sometimes her likes annoy me. I remember when we were a lil younger she seemed to love guys that looked like wife-beaters. But she has good taste in athletes; my favorite Steeler is "pretty good looking for a black guy" :afro: When she likes a girl it makes me about 5 times more likely to think the girl's hot.
My husband and I are VERY honest with eachother. I know that if I ask a question he will give me an honest answer. If I'm not prepared to deal with that, then I don't ask the question. I do however ask him that quit often. It's more because I want to know if he has a "type". Also, because I can appreciate a womans body without becoming insanely jealous. Moral of the story: If you don't think you'll like the answer, don't ask the question ya dumbass!
Because the girl is fishing for a compliment? I don't know, I never ask that sort of stupid question. Obviously there are millions of better looking women than me, but clearly my boyfriend likes me and is happy, so that is good enough for me.
Insuerce or jealousy.. could be seeing what he finds hot, what he doesnt.. What she has that the GF doesnt. I used ask those questions when I was younger but stopped, cause either he finds me attractive or he doesnt. I dont care cause he probably finds a lot of girls hot, ok, and ugly. I dont care that his opinion, and when I did ask I would get honestly answers and that just made me more jealousy when I was younger. People still look and are attracted to their type, worry if they arent attracted to you.
Well, I'm into both sexes, so my husband and I frequently point out hot chicks to each other. He's not into dudes, though, so it doesn't always work both ways. But then most hot guys I like to look at but wouldn't want to see naked, so it works out. I've also asked the "fat" question, sort of, but I've been exercising a LOT and need to know which of my clothes still fit, which ones don't anymore, and which ones don't yet. He's usually pretty honest with me.