Long story short, i like this girl, i don't know her very well, i've only met her a few times through friends, She says she is straight. Im gay, she knows this. My friends told me they think she definitely isn't straight by some of the things she says/does. but she still claims to be. (except her facebook says she is gay, ive asked her about this during emails, but she just ignored that part of the message, but she never changed her facebook, so she is aware that it is there) Well last night she drunk texted me asking how i knew i was gay, and admitting to being turned on by girls in magazines. i replied, but she never wrote back Til the next morning, she sent me a text saying sorry and that she was drinking and that she is straight. What do you think this means? Do you think she is just confused about her sexuality? and is reaching out to me coz im gay. she hasnt mentioned anything about this topic to her other friends, ive asked them. Also my friend told me the night after i met this girl, she made some comment asking if i was single. and also made some comment about how i would never be interested in her. its sad, coz i actually am. i just dont know her very well, ive been trying to spend more time with her to get to know her and see how i feel in person (we text and facebook alot and i really like her personality) but everytime something is planned it ends up getting cancelled or something. The last time i saw her was 3 weeks ago. i was supposed to see her alone tomorrow, but she just cancelled. Once she texted me asking if i wanted to do something with just her, and i suggested something but she just never wrote back or mentioned it again. I know i should be wary about girls like this, especially when they keep denying they are even into girls. but i do like her and she seems to be trying to reach out but is scared? what do you think?
there's a crap load of attractive people now a days. you should try with someone else until you find out if this chick is really gay or not. Or you might find someone so awesome you'll forget about her.
she's toying with you b/c you give her attention. unfortunately this happens a lot with lesbians and straight girls.
