How do i tell him?

Discussion in 'Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans, etc.' started by Cambon, Nov 22, 2010.

  1. Cambon

    Cambon Guest

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    Hey guys so i need some ideas.
    Me and my boyfriend have been going out for around 3 months now,It will actually be 3 months this coming 13th :)
    Im falling for him ,He is the FIRST person iv ever fell for well falling.
    When would be the best time to tell him that im starting to fall for him?
    :sunny: His smile makes me melt:blush5:
     
  2. meridianwest

    meridianwest Senior Member

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    whenever you tell him, do it in a natural setting. in a situation and under circumstances where it would follow naturally to express your feelings. don't push it. when the moment comes you'll know it. good luck.
     
  3. yarapario

    yarapario Village Elder

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    ^^

    yep. good advice...and your line, "his smile makes me melt" made me smile for you Good Luck to both of you
     
  4. creedlespeek

    creedlespeek Member

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    I can tell you what not to do. :D I always rely on subtle conveyance of feeling, and I think most people need to be told in a natural "right" moment as suggested, in plain terms, "I love you." And when you say it, there's no expectation of anything, a reply or an action, but you can just entirely be with the person in that moment, no matter what happens. That's the penultimate expression of love.
     
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    I am having a little trouble understanding why you would be with someone for three months if you hadn't already fallen for them. :p

    If I were you, I would just go with my instincts on how/when/where to tell him how you feel. Whenever it feels right, and whatever feels right to say, say it. Just don't be scared.
     

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