Isn't it amazing when you're with a person for years...

and the sex just keeps getting better and better?

:2thumbsup:

 

Experimentation helps the sexual blues. I figured that one out, after sex started to get boring and our lives were becoming too routine. We spiced some stuff up a bit, and BOOM, sex got instantly better and it just keeps on getting better all the time.

 

So true! My hubby and I have only been together for about 2 years, but every day it just gets better and better! Plus, when you're with someone you can trust it makes it easy to be open about what you want and what you don't want. Communication is key to a happy sex life! :sultan:

 

It's great it gets better it gets boring it get better it gets boring it gets better. I've been with the same woman for 22 years

 

Holy cow, that's a long time! I hope we're as lucky!

 

I didn't see how this was great, until I saw this:

Congrats, man.

I didn't figure you were very old... what's your story?

 

i lost my virginity to my current boyfriend. we've been together for 4 years now. i don't get bored at all after this long. he keeps me coming back for more. =)

 

I'm not very old, only 48. When I met my wife I had just sworn off women cuz my girlfriend had just cheated on me. Dated her for 2 years then got married. :sunny:

I fish in alaska so I'm gone for months at a time which is both good and bad for a marriage.
Just remember, it's not a fight tell you react.

 

Damn straight.

 

Truely depends on two people and their sex level and desires.

With my ex, it got good, boring, back to good - on and off sex level. I realized it was because he was more basic and traditional, while I was more "weird" in his words, so we had to compromise. Communication is the best thing that lets the true sex start.

 

the only person i've spent years with was my mom. so yes, it would be pretty amazing if the sex was getting better..

 

Fuck all you people in trusting, lasting, sex-filled relationships

 

Cheers!

You damn lucky bastards :love:

 

Your story sounds like mine, I had been divorced from a cheating wife and had sworn off women because the women I'd dated since the divorce had all screwed me over.

My room mate woke me up, asking if I could keep his step sister busy because he wanted to put the moves on the girl she had stopped by with. Blah, Blah, Blah, 9 months later we got married and have been together 21 years now.

The sex is just as amazing as it was in the beginning, we just don't do it as often as we used to.

 

Honestly, after 22 years with my husband, I find that things ebb and flow. And, yes spicing things up, experimentation, etc. definately help. And it is so nice being with someone you can trust and who knows how to please.

 

coincidence?

 

No we didn't have our first until we had been married a year.

 

Great stories Jo and slappy! Cheers to both of yins.