Cant continue after 1st orgasm problem

After I have a orgasm I become so sensitive I cant let my BF continue penetrating me.
Ive always been good at cumming at the same time because when guys slow down or stop thrusting to cum it makes me cum with him and all is great.
But my new BF is great in bed and could last forever but he starts great then slows down or stops for 10-20sec every few min so hes not premature, then continues. This has always worked good for him with past GF's to last long but it makes me cum and then I have to finish him orally.
It sucks because I want to scream and say dont slow down fuck me hard but I dont want to hurt his feelings.
Is there away for me to not be so sensitive after 1 orgasm?
Is anybody else like this or am I a freak?
How is it some women have multiples?
It feels so great when he fucks me hard why do I cum when he stops?
Are we just never going to be sexual compatible?

 

Every female is different when it comes to orgasms.
I cant tell you why you like that why but not this way. As everyone is different.
I can suggest waiting a min or two, and then trying for him to go in you again. As right after you come you're more sentensive and waiting a bit might help.
You can try to relax your muscles when he slows down you too. I usually come quicker with when my muscles are tense, and I learned when I relax them it gives me more time.
But overall, I doubt you'll be able to change the way you orgasm.. Its the way you were built and there is nothing wrong with that, at least you know what you like and dont. So all I can suggest is waiting 1-2mins and then he trying to go in you again.

 

What about anal while you cool down? Then going back to vaginal.