Are you asking if I'd rather have a great relationship and no sex or great sex and no relationship? Relationship every time. If ever you find that total connection, you'll know why. Sex is fantastic. It's powerful. I love sex. But I have a mind and its needs are far greater than the need for a fuck. Thankfully, being young and active, and incredibly lucky, I get both
relationship is always the most important...physical intimacy has to be built up to. I lost my virginity to a girl I loved, and who loved me....and it was so intense. It's better love making when there is a strong foundation too, it's more mature...and so much more fulfiling.