need a little help ladies, guys welcome aswell

hey all,

need to ask a few questions if thats okay. ladies need your honest opnions and advice. Being with my girlfriend for the past two years now, and love her to pieces nothing would change that, i wouldnt say its a mssive issue, but i want the bedroom department to be more exciting for her.

The reason i am getting at this is because when we have sex, okay i hear a little moan and a groan when i am inside her, but dont feel as if she is fully enjoying it like i would want her to and almost think i she wants me to hurry up and get on with it, Now call me paranoid yes i could be, but i dont think i am lacking in the penis department at all, i mean i am touching 7 inches and quite happy with it, but like you women say these days its not the size its what you do it with it.

Now is there certain ways i can enter her to make her groan or moan more?

is there certain postions that are better to give her more pleasure etc.

When going for it, do i need to be pumping down, up, to the side, i know that sound stupid but anything would help. i think the more experienced women will be able to answer and help me haha

So thankyou for listening, and hope to hear from you all soon

 

when you are banging her.....not too fast...grab her hand and place it on her clitoris...she will likely realize that YOU have realized that you need a bit of help. she will be shy at first but keep your hand on hers and slowly make a rubbing motion and she will respond and start 'rubbing one out'....make sure she comes before you blow yours...ALWAYS..

good luck

 

ohh....yaaaaaaaaa

 

I will take this as a compliment...thank you..:mickey:

 

Yes you should

 

here's and idea: ask her!!!

 

try sears, they have a great bedroom department.

 

Try seeing if bringing out her wild side will enhance having sex for her. Even the more timid girls have a wild side that just needs provoking.

Be rough with her but not too rough. Just enough to show her that you are in complete control. Talk dirty to her and don't be shy about it.

Place a couple pillows under her hips and have her pull those legs back. At this point it would be great to have a vibrator present. Lick, flick and suck on her clit while you also use the vibrator on her. It works best if you diddle her clit with the vibe from the topside (coming straight down from her belly to her clit with the vibe) while you continue to use your tongue on her from underneath. Mix and mingle your tongue and the vibe, and don't be shy about licking her asshole and lightly kissing and caressing her inner things. Keep this up until she either cums or she's soaking wet.

Then get on the side of the bed and insert one, then two fingers into her pussy. Concentrate on her upper wall where the mysterious g spot is located. Don't go really hard, or really fast at first, but do add some light pressure. This will begin to get her very aroused. You need to switch back and forth from the "come hither" motion to applying gentle but firm pressure in a cicrular motion, all along her upper vaginal wall. Keep working in this way and feel free to talk dirty to her. If she says she has to pee, she doesn't, so pay no attention to that. Placing your free hand on her tummy and lightly massaging her works well in concert with the g spot stimulation you're giving her with your fingers. It all depends on the girl, but some will cum very easily from all of this activity, while others might need some "getting used to it". So, if it doesn't work the first time, don't give up or discard it from your routine. Now, it's usually clear when she's going to cum. Like I said, if she starts getting the feeling of having to pee then you're well on your way to giving her a vaginal orgasm through g spot stimulation. Increase the pace with your fingers the closer she gets to orgasming. I'm usually flying in and out of her at the end because she's so sopping wet and loves it by this point. The keys are to find her g spot, get really good at stimulating it, and encourage her to cum this way. They can get a little freaked out thinking they're gonna pee, and you have to reassure them to just go for it.

Okay, so after you get her to scream like a banshee and cumming her brains out, yank the pillows out from underneath her and put her on her tummy. Like I said, have your way with her. Slap her ass a few times and tell her to assume the postion. Make sure her head is buried in the bed and her back is arched so her pussy is in perfect position for a good doggy style fucking.

Put your legs IN FRONT of hers so you get "locked in". This should allow you to easily grab her shoulders to support yourself. Slide that cock into her already dripping pussy canal and really lay it to her. Fuck her for all your worth and occassionally slapping her ass, pulling her hair, and of course talking dirty to her should have both of you extremely aroused. You can even add an additional dimension to it if you lube her asshole and gently work a thumb into her. Play with that ass then go back to pounding her doggy style. Back and forth, the thumb in the ass, the pounding her pussy with your cock, the slapping her ass cheeks, the pulling her hair, the talking dirty to her. Heck, you could even lube up the little vibe and slip that into her ass. Just go easy on her until you're sure she can handle it.

It might seem rather degrading, but let's face it, girls love to be made love to, but girls also love to be fucked hardcore. Finding that happy balance is usually the key to having a great sex life together.

 

Or Ikea, the he gets an instruction manual

Step 3: Put Rod A into Slot B

 

all of the people that are giving detailed advice are probably one-move men themselves and suck in bed. ask her, for the love of god. don't listen to the detailed advice!

 

put her knees to her ears, and fuck that shit as hard you can and harder... if you need help finishing up gve me a call

 

Yes, I'm just a one move man who sucks in bed.

OP, it's best if you disregard any advice you receive unless it comes from the great, all knowing, vigilante.

(thank God she finally removed all that ridiculously stupid, childish, text-speak she was using as her sig.) Hopefully it's a sign that she's growing up.

 

i think you missed the point. you gave your special moves as advice as if it would work on any woman. you don't know that. that assumption leads me to believe that your sexual prowess may not be as esteemed as you putoff.

my sig never had text speak in it, so you must be thinking of someone else. what does my sig have to do with it anyways.

op, ask your girl!

 

Dear, great and all knowing, Vig.

Please stop speaking for me, and about me, like you know me. Okay?

Thanks,

Me.

 

if you could do the same, and stop speaking for his girlfriend. okay?

 

Speaking for his GF? NOT! He came her asking for some advice, something different to try to spice things up. I took the time to give him some ideas and you chose not only to attack my advice, but to attack me as well. Pretty classless of you.

But, ya know what? It doesn't matter. I see how you just run from thread to thread causing trouble and spreading your negativity.

Have a nice day, and get well soon, great and all knowing, Vig.

 

lmao

 

Now girls!

 

As was mentioned earlier, you could ask her. If she's not comfortable talking about, try different things, pay attention to what she enjoys, when you find something she seems to like, go with it. But don't stop looking for new ways to make her feel good. Learn how to go down on her, again trying different things. I only been with a few women that didn't melt after some good oral sex. Let her be on top and in control during intercourse, pay attention to what she does. Not all women are moaners and groaners, I was with a girl once that would become silent as a mouse and tremble when she had and orgasm. My motto has always been "Don't worry about yourself, do everything you can to please her and you will be rewarded" One last thought, there are alot of places on a woman's body that cause arrousal. Knew one gal that if I ran my fingernail down the bottom of her foot while we were having intercourse would just send her over the edge. Good Luck

 

that's good advice.