I don't wunna be straight!

Hey guys, I'm old to these forums, and have been reading 'em for a while. I have a problem, and I am hoping you guys could help me out. I have always liked girls, and I think they are hot (mostly, lol). And every night I have dreams about having straight sex. I often fantasize about ladies at the exclusion of men. I have always thought guys were gross, but I only wish gay sex could become more appealing to me. No offense to gays or straights, I have nothing against them. I just really, really want to be bi. I think the dry spell I'm in might have something to do with these nold feelings. Can somebody please help me??? I am 21, and probably too young to be thinking about this at all, but I wish nature had given me full autonomy over my sexuality. I mean come on I'd double my dating pool. My little black book could be the white pages!

 

Do it. Worse case scenario, you'll be completely repulsed by the whole experience, and after a small vomiting and some JD you can pretend it never happened. So only as bad as your average night out.

And I "swore off" women when I was 16. There's no age deal here. Plus you're not exactly doing anything that's going to change your life for the worse. Unless you get AIDS. Try not to do that.

 

If you have any homosexual tendencies, play it out. Experiment wit it. Your mind seems to possess a sense of curiosity towards the issue...

However, also remember that in most cases, sexuality isn't a change that can be controlled through only free .Usually you have these uncontrolled tendencies...If you find guys gross and unattractive, chances are that you're straight, liking only women.

 

don't worry about labels of straight/gay/bi. just be yourself and let yourself be.

 

I just take the attitude that I'm bisexual; I wouldn't not go with a woman if I wanted to. But as of yet, I haven't met one who I've actually wanted to do. Rather than explain all that to people who have enough trouble coping with "Yes... in the bum, yes... yes, it's agony... anything else?", I usually just say I'm a homo.