I need the advice of the Hip community

We should just erase the concept of love from society. Just acknowledge that some guys just don't give a fuck and that most people get bored with long relationships.

People can be such disappointments.

 

That's a bit harsh, besides, love and sex are not one and the same. I can love someone and fuck someone else.

Exactly. And more importantly, if you're not dating that guy, all the more reason not to care.

That's so true. It's best to not date those people.

 

Lunaverse, are you single? You're so logical... that's sexy. It's a nice contradiction to my over-emotional self.

But you're right. It's too much to give up on love. I haven't had much experience in that regard, so I would be rather disappointed in myself if I gave up this early in the game.

Back to the OP: Just do what you think is best... and I guess you decided on what that was. Best of luck.

 

Yes I am

I'm told that all the time...


(sarcasm)

I think that's a compliment, so thanks.

 

:2thumbsup:

 

the part that pisses me off is that he sees his friend's plan to use ecstacy as an opportunity to fuck her. that is plain fucking wrong!

 

Why? I assume he will be high/drunk as well. He's right: it's easier to get the ball rolling when it comes to sex when you're on drugs or drunk. I think he's made it pretty clear that he doesn't want to do anything against the girl's wishes: he's just allowing the drugs to get rid of the awkwardness that comes with having sex or an intimate encounter for the first time.

 

that is such a lame excuse and you know it! fucking bullshit

 

How do you know?

There is a chance that he could be lying and has every intention of taking advantage of that girl but you can't prove it. He doesn't seem to be responding to your accusations, and that could be because he has no reason to feel guilty because he has no intention of being a prick.

How are you so convinced that you're right?

 

It makes perfect sense if you don't infantilize the woman. If we assume that she can do drugs and still be responsible for herself (which any grown woman should be able to), there's no reason she'd be in danger. You assume the OP can do E and not get raped; if you assume the opposite about the girl, you're assuming she's less capable of taking care of herself. Maybe she is, but that depends on who she is individually; neither of us know her, so the assumption that she can't look out for herself is a major one, and the wrong one.

 

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Absolutely! Down with Christian "love", up with Greek (pagan) "friendship".

 

Agreed, its such a pussy move to hit on someone while drunk/high. Why can't he talk to her when he is sober. It may be easier because she doesn't know what the hell she is doing.

 

Mmm, true, yeah: it is generally better to hit on someone sober, or at least not too out there.

 

It's good thing none of us have ever hit on people while they were fucked up.

Whewwwwwwwwwwww.......

I think he has a better chance of getting the ass if she's on E?

Do you concur vigilantiherbalist????

 

it's not about whether she can hold her own or not. and i think she is a teen by the way, which means she is not "grown". this is about him thinking that it is the perfect opportunity to hookup. that is soooo shady.

 

nothing happened. don"y worry laidieshhh B)

 

You're going back to your girlfriend now aren't you?

 

Haha actually nothing happened because I didn't even go. I chilled with a couple friends instead. SO yeah I mean my girlfriend are probably going to keep dating.

And I'm sorry to everyone that was offended with my actions. Although I disagree with your harshness and hostility, I can appreciate what you're trying to communicate to me. I'm just taking some alone time and meditating on a lot of things. I hope we can move forward in a positive direction.

 

Are you going to stick around at hip forums?