Female Orgasms - Better and more frequent with age?

Hello everyone. Long time watcher, first time poster.

Here's a question that I don't think I've seen on this board, at least not recently. The last two women that I've been with have told me that they had few, or absolutely no orgasms as a teenager and/or as an early twenty-something. The one I'm currently with says she didn't have her first one until 22 or 23 years old (not from lack of partners apparently), and could count the number of orgasms that she's had since then, on one hand (28 yo now). What's funny is that they usually offer up this info freely, without me questioning them about it. My current girlfriend offered up the info right after I gave her an orgasm orally. Her eyes were kinda' glassy and she had an enormous grin on her face, if that tells you anything. So I was just wondering if any ladies on this board have had similiar experiences with orgasms. Or is this just pillow talk? Thanks!

 

They're most likely telling you the truth, at least about being able to count their orgasms on one hand. I really, really hope that they're telling the truth about it becoming easier as they get older.

 

well, im still young but if they got better with age that would be amazing. i dont think it is true that orgasms are less frequent or intense in the teen years though. i started becoming sexually active when i was 15 and i had orgasms then, quite often actually, and still have them now. i remember masterbating when i was 13 and being able to have an orgasm.... well maybe i just developed fast but i don't think being younger restricts orgasmic intensity

 

I would describe them as more dependable. Not necessarily more frequent - that would depend on how much sex you're getting? And more intense? I don't know, it's all good.

 

The older I've become, the less self-conscious I've become. This has lifted many inhibitions that I previously had. Because I am more able to relax about my self, I am more able to relax about my orgasms. I enjoy sex more now, than I used to, because I am more focused on what I am feeling, rather than what I am doing (or what's being done to me). Now, I am not ashamed to say what brings me pleasure and I don't worry about offending my boyfriend, by asking him to do something differently. I am also not ashamed about people knowing that I enjoy sex.

I truly believe that this sense of freedom has made it much better.

 

I've read several places that women don't fully develop down there until their 20s, which makes it harder to orgasm. I can only orgasm with the help of a shower faucet, and I was up front with my boyfriend about this because some guys take it as an ego hit if they can't make their partners orgasm. *shrugs* Guys have it lucky.

 

I can see how that would come about... the older you get, the better you get to know your body. You're usually getting older, more experienced partners as well, which means they actually know what they're doing. When you get older, you can try new techniques and basically experiment more, especially once you hit the 18 mark and can legally buy sex toys. I'd be happy as hell if my orgasms became more frequent and better!

 

I read in an "age and sex" type journal, that a woman in her sxties or seventies has a much more intense orgasm than a younger woman, .."if she can find a patient and healthy enough partner." That might explain the value of the 20/30something jiggalo. Not my cuppa, but still...hope for the future?

 

Well, back when I was 18 and my husband was 22 years old, I never had a problem acheiving orgasms, and multiple ones at that. Now, due to medications that I am on and fatigue, acheiving orgams at the drop of the hat are not as easy, and sex may not be as frequent as it once was.

HOWEVER, now, as a 26 year old woman with a husband of 30, and 3 children later, I say that the orgasms are even more explosive now than they were back when we were younger. They feel so much more powerful, and can leave me completely weak in the knees and shaking all over due to the intensity. I also find sex much more emotionally satisfying, as well as physically. This might just be due to the fact that I am more comfortable with expressing myself sexually, I'm less inhibited, and my husband and I know one another's bodies quite well. I mean, we've been together for nearly 9 years.

Like a fine wine, I feel that it gets better with age. At least, that's my experience.

Peace...

 

Interesting and enlightening stuff. To add a little bit to my original post... I must say that since I gave my current girlfriend that first orgasm that I spoke of, she's been like a kid in a candy store. She can't get enough. To say the least, I've been putting out BIG time since that first night. For this reason, I'm leaning towards believing her about her lack of orgasms with past lovers. It's like she's been missing out all her life and I'm making up for it. No problem here. I love every minute of her pleasure. Thanks for responding!