I find when I embrace my feminine side I: A) Verbalize every insignificant thought that enters my head B) Pay too much attention to my looks C) Stress and worry about a whole lot of things no one else cares about D) Use my nose more for speech than my mouth E) Pack two weeks worth of clothes for a three day trip F) Lose the ability to reverse park
Where as when I embrace my masculine side, I: A) Neglect to say anything important B) Pay too much attention to a girls looks C) Stress and worry about football results D) Think with my cock rather than my brain E) Pack three days of clothes for a fortnight long trip F) Lack caution altogether when driving a car :dizzy2:
when I embrace my sexually confused side, I A) I look at the boys.. B) I look at the girls.. C) then scream at my penis... D) whilst it's up my pet cats backside E) and it's trying to steer my car wtf??? :dizzy2: WHAT'S THE SCORE KITTY??
I embraced my feminine side once. Turns out it was a bull dagger who beat the shit outta me. I'll just stay masculine - safer that way.
I watch Dancing with the Stars and a damn good cook . Is that close enough to showing off my feminine side ? To each his own .
Honestly, it may sound like it's a bigoted set of comments, but only the last one doesn't apply to me. Actually, it probably is bigoted now that I think of it. I guess I'm a little bit sexist, because I do associate all these negative qualities with a feminine side. I guess that our gender roles are just so ingrained by society... I LOVE this. You never fail to rock IB. So, when I consider 'embracing my feminine side', what comes to mind is being sensitive to my emotions. I HATE it. It feels like it makes me weaker, or not as invincible. Like my boyfriend put it (and I was actually on the opposite side of this at the time, but...) "it's nice just to be a rock." On that note, mannerisms that usually fall under the category of the female gender role do please me. I like to bake, and cook, write poetry and garden, plant flowers and take care of the young (lol). I've never explored the stereotypical, I guess campy, or just more feminine side. I've never been catty or anything, but maybe I'll try it someday... For most of my life, I've watched my back to make sure that I didn't show any femininity, and I guess it would be nice to embrace at least once, just to see what it's like, and maybe it would help me come to terms with its minor expression in my everyday, but ...idk, maybe it's just not for me...?
I wish I were more comfortable acting "feminine." I wish my voice were softer. At the same time I like being able to project my voice and be heard. I don't know if they are exclusive. I wish my pitch were higher but am not a fan of that "whiny" voice. I wish I had better swagger. I probably do strut my stuff sometimes. I also put WAY too much time into picking out clothes.
if I,m stressed I always put on a bra, panties, stockings and a dress. The feel of the clothes bring out my side and really helps relieves the stress.