Hi all, I am a new member but have been reading for some time now. I want to share my anal experince that I have had with my wife of 10yrs. Let me start by saying she has always been against anal, always a no way are you going in there. So, I never pushed the issue hard, but I would play with her ass every chance I got. I would always just massage her a-hole with my tongue, my fingers, or even the head of my dick. She always enjoyed that, never stopping the massage. So, I started to explore a little further. I started to penetrate her a-hole with my fingers and she did not refuse. This went on for a few months and she even considered trying my cock one night. I warmed her up, played with her in every way I could. We even pulled out a few of her toys to start the penetration. When we finally worked her toy in, I could tell she was not enjoying it. I asked her is she wanted to stop, but she said no. So we went on and the she wanted my cock. So, we lubed everything up and tried to get it in. I could tell she was in pain so after trying for a few minutes, we stopped. I never pushed the issue about penetrating it again. Instead, I would slip a finger in that ass of hers while she would fuck me. I could tell she loves is, her orgasms are intense and go on forever. Well, then just about a week ago, we were all hot, playing with each other and I started to fuck her this time. I had her going hard. All I did was fucked her slow, and then I would pull out and rub my cock against her a-hole, then back into her pussy. We did the for about 10-15 minutes, and she was having more orgasms than ever before this time. Every time I would rub against that ass, she would blow again. Then, out of the nowhere, she said I want you to fuck that ass. I asked if she was sure, and she said fuck it. So, I pull out the lube and get it all ready. This time we took it even slower. She worked her ass around my cock trying to get it in. The amount of pressure I am putting against her scares me to think I am going to hurt her. She kept going, and just about the time I think it was going in, my dick would shoot into her pussy, making her have another hot orgasm. We tried this a few more times with same result, but the it finally started to enter. I didn't want to go to far to fast. So I didn't push any more and just let my dick stay at the entrance of her ass so she could adjust. This time she was doing great with it. I put more lube down on her ass and my dick and started working again. Made a little more progress before I could tell she was not comfortable again. So we stopped and she smiled. She the told me that was great progress and made it sound like she enjoyed it. Even though it was not deep anal penetration, it was a start. Hopefully, she will want to pursue it even more. I can only hope, the amount of orgasms she had from all of the anal playing was crazy. I will do anything to make her happy like that. It's always good when she is smiling. Sorry for the long post (story), but I just wanted to share my story. Hopefully, I will be replying with a post about how we went full depth, anal fucking. Crash
Congratulations Bro. My fiancee and I have been having Oral and Anal almost exclusively for about 3 years. The thing she says about the orgasms during anal is that they last longer. Once your wife gets past the pain she might get hooked Good luck. Peace Out, Rev J
What most women don't know about anal sex is that while your going in she has to be pushing out, like she's trying to take a poop, sounds odd, but thats what opens her up.. The woman can't just lay there and be the recipient in anal sex, she has to be a participant...
my wife was scared aswell, but after starting with one finger, then two and upto 4 and pushing to a fist. You just gotta let her relax, take your time, let her get used the sensation of a few fingers. The toys will definately help. You will know when she is totally relaxed, then start making your way with your pepe. easy does it.
Here's a link to a thread where I gave some rather detailed advice to someone on proper Anal sex: http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=394251&f=281 Peace Out, Rev J
Well good for you for stopping when you should and for having a partner who wanted to come back for a bit more each time. I had a similar experience working up to it (took almost 10 years!) although when it came to something more than a finger I was able go all the way and we had a repeat several times after that, she even slipped into her ass herself once when I wasn't even trying. I wish you all the best and hope you can both come to enjoy it.
but its not about what and how much u can fit in there....its about making her relaxed and at ease with the situation. Plenty of time and patience...u can never go wrong.
Well, after many attempts at anal, my wife and I finally made it. We have been trying to get my tool into her back door for some time now but never could make it before the pressure and pain would be to much for her. I never pushed her into continuing but every time we would fuck, she wanted to try. Every time we tried it would send her over the top with joy until the pain would kick in. Then I had been doing a little reading and read that a lot of people recommended astro glide. We had been using ky, but this astro glide is some slick stuff. We applied some on our next fuck session, slowly pushed it in, and in no time I was in her ass. Once I was in, she was screaming with joy telling me to fuck that ass!! I did exactly that and she had one long intense orgasm from the moment I got into her ass until I blew my wad and was out of her ass. Yeah, we had a little mess, but we both expected it. Now, ass fucking is all she talks about. I think we are hooked. I know she loved the orgasm as I loved taking her ass virginity.
I am 19 years old and Ive been having anal sex since I was 17. Ive been with my boyfriend for two years and we have sex (anal, vaginal, oral whateverr) like 3 or 4 times a day at least. Now Charlie is 11 1/2 inches long. ha i didnt believe it when I first saw it. I was scared to death and i didnt wanna even try it with him because i was afraid of pain. but after a few minutes of working into my pussy or my ass, oh man its blisss. I love being fucked in the ass more than i love bein fucked in my pussy because I can reach orgasm so much faster and have alot more. Espically if im bent over and rubbing my clit while hes fuckin my ass at the same time, i can cum in about 3 minutes and then 3 minutes after that and after that and so on. so for the girl who says shes scared, just lubee up like hell. its amazing once you get into it.
You hear that ladies??? You all should be 19 years old and taking 12 inch dicks in your ass with a smile on your face! hahaha
hmm my gf is also abit afraid of it, she just kinda dismisses it. Although when we were first seeing each other, when she got drunk she asked for it once, and for some reason i said no lol wasn't sure whether it was best to use a condom and didn't have one :S. since then when i have talked about it she has said no. Oh well, maybe your story will happen to me too
Congrats Crash80 - had a similar experience after about 8 years of dating. Never really had problems getting it in once she decided to let me try but it was a long, long wait to get clearence. A tongue here, a tongue there, once in a while a finger up the bum. When it happened we went from rimming to full penetration with very little trouble - I think she was mentally ready, and I think had already done some reading of her own on the subject. Bearing down and good lube definitely helps, but you know what - that first time - it was just saliva and it still went in real easy. Hope you have lots of fun!
