On those rare occasions where she allows anal, she cums hard and fast. And then her bum hurts for 2 days? (I don't know, ask her.) For whatever reason (?it's designed as an exit and long term misuse might damage it? I don't know, ask her). For whatever reason, on those rare occasions that she allows anal, enjoy it. Don't waste that feeling by yearning for it the rest of the time. If you always ask, she'll get practiced at saying "no" and pissed off. Away from those rare occasions, don't yearn for what you can't have, enjoy and explore what she WILL allow. It sounds like you have a good thing going. Why are you focusing on this one small disappointment rather than looking at the fine family that is growing around you? Come on man, look at the all the good stuff around you rather than focusing on the small hole in your domestic perfection. There's plenty in your life to make you smile, why look at the stuff that makes you frown. Its not important, letting it go will let you grasp the good stuff with both hands. Congrats on the son. :groupwave:
I continue to wish that my woman would have porn star caliber sex every time we have sex but unfortunately that just doesn't happen. Once or twice a week I get the really good sex, rest of the time it's "normal" and that's good enough for me.