Favorite Sexual Position

i love being on top, arching my back as i lean forward to he can bit my nipples HARD

but some days...

i like being tied up and no choice

 

Depends on my mood, how turned on I am, if I am feeling dominate or submissive, whether I am making love or fucking, ... lots of factors

 

Favotire: her on top so I can suck her tits at the same time
Second favorite: doggy style or standing bent over from behind
Then missionary for the control and intimacy

 

Same for me. I think the missionary is cruely misnamed. In this position you can kiss, bite earlobes, whisper sweet nothings or talk nasty.

 

pile driver much deeper and very stimulating

 

I prefer doggy. There's hair pulling, spanking, and you can easily use another toy infront or back haha. But also when the female straightens her back, it gets tighter, when its crouched, it feels looser. Thats a good thing about that position.

I like missionary second.. only cause its for vanilla for me. Thats when I just want it plain and done with nothing too crazy and just eh. Im not a fan of kissing either - my ex/bf actually made me sick of it that I hate hate hate kissing during sex. (maybe hes just bad at it) but kissing distracts me from the mood.

 

I like missionary, girl on top, and oral. It's hard to choose.

 

So hard to choose just one, lol. Well, I like starting out missionary, letting him work me up, rubbing it against me putting it in a little then out..etc. But I really enjoy ending up on top so I can control pushing him all the way in. I think he tends to enjoy doggie more. It's just so hard to choose a fav.

 

To truly be relevant and useful, this should be a two-part poll: men's favorite position compared to women's, and I'm betting there's a significant difference between the two. In my experience, most women need control of the rhythem and pace in order to achieve orgasm, so the girl on top will undoubtedly rank higher.

 

Either party can control the rhythm from any position that allows you to put your hands on your partner's hips.

 

you may have just described the average night of sex for me. Throw lifting her legs onto my shoulders and you have it.

 

Ohhh, he does that too

 

Other: me sitting on the floor or bed, her sitting in my lap. (Yoga/Tantra position)

 

I like missionary and her on top. Think those are fairly comfortable positions for both parties

 

With reverse cowgirl you can really go for it. Its great when your partner is loving it so much that they just can't take it any more and just fall back onto you

A nice feeling

 

True, but I think most men have no problem at all gettin' their cookies, while it takes more effort and time, usually, for women. I think it's a good policy to be sure she has hers before I get mine, especially since men are generally worthless (limp and sleeply) after a climax. So, for you younger guys who are just learning the ropes, use your tongue, finger, toy, or dick plenty in the early going, paying attention to the clit and g-spot, and help her have an orgasm first, THEN go for yours. Your woman will be happier, trust me.

Having said that, my wife and I had a policy of "Her Wednesday" and "His Friday" where the dedicated goal of one partner was to achieve maximum pleasure for the other, with no expectation of any payback. Worked great.

 

A quick secondary survey: Do any women find the g-spot stimulation with full insertion better in cowgirl vs reverse cowgirl? Or is it the difference between the two mostly for it's variety? Always wondered about that, and never really had a girlfriend who did much reverse cowgirl.

 

Communication is very important. Having her feel comfortable giving feeback is the surest way to a great end result. You're right that the guy is almost always going to get what he needs.

Do it! Setting up a thread with a survey is not difficult.

 

I get better G-spot action facing forward, if I lean back a little. This takes advantage of the coronal ridge.

 

I love having a girl's ankles on my shoulders and just pounding away. After she's already cum at least once, I usually will speed things up, hoist her hips up further, and then pull out, cumming all over her face, tits and stomach. Or just directly on her clit.