Equallity in the bedroom?

I just dont get it its just amazing sometimes..especially when its so obvious..haha, what I have no idea what I am talking about now

 

Doesn't make sense to me either...

 

haha yeah, me either..pfft, people

 

Hey, if I had a partner who wouldn't go down on me, I certainly wouldn't be trying to force them down there. It's not like they'd do a good job if they're forced to. I just probably wouldn't stay with them long, unless their hands were really freakin talented. It might be that the initiator of this thread ends up breaking up with his chick over this, it certainly wouldn't be irrational in my view.

But you should never force your partner to do something they don't want to. It will turn them off, it -should- turn you off too.

 

How was he forcing her??

 

I feel if the girl doesn't want to give you head then owell. Deal with it and if you can't and it means that much to you then break up with her. When making love it's all about making yourself happy and your partner happy. Well if she hates the taste of it then she is not happy. So compromise with her. If she will not give you head have her do something else that really turns you on instead.

 

mystical, I didn't say that this guy was absolutely going to force his gf to go down on him. But it has been a suggestion from other people, and in other threads where the chick wasn't getting any oral action, people have said to essentially give him an ultimatim - go down on the girl or get dumped (I'm sorry, I don't know precisely where that thread is anymore, otherwise I would've linked it) and I was saying that being forced into an undesireable act is the most incorrect approach to this situation there is. That's all.

 

I mean, I agree being forced to do any sexual act, is not right..
But I was saying that the poster of this was probably more hurt by the way she approach him about it..throwing insults and making him feel bad..And im sorry, thats mean and stupid...And it just sorta pissed me off people telling him off and saying that he needs to talk to her better about it, and to make sure her feelings dont get hurt..but what about his, ya know..

 

Don't be silly, everyone knows us guys don't have any feelings...