my dad died today

yeah my father smoked cigarettes and had heart problems from what I heard gave him trouble, at least he died in his bed. Also I can relate that now i really dont care him but as I get older I'll miss the fact that I didnt have a father but at least I tried to get in touch with him.

thanks for the input.

 

The past is absolute. What's done is done. It can never be changed. You are now the young man of the man you will become, that won't change all that much. All you can really take from this given the circumstance, is that if you ever decide to become a father, be the type of father you wish you could have had.

My father wasn't around all that much before he died. But thanks to that circumstance I now know the kind of man I'd like to be, towards my family, my niece, and towards the children I might one day have.

 

I feel ya man. I aint never seen my dad, so it is entirely possible that one day I might just get a bunch of free shit or maybe a multi million dollar estate. but I doubt it.

But still, I extend my deepest condolances.

 

Death its only fitting you are on a dead person thread.

on a side note.

everytime i see you post i think of the grim reaper on sims.

X)

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMOeBTHbTUs"]YouTube - grim reaper - see you in hell

 

This Is A Great Post.!!

Sent You A Pos Rep To Say Thanks, Then Decided I Should Put

It Out Here For All To Read....



Cheers Glen.

 

Yeah thanks but you guys dont have to be so sorry! but I respect that.

 

Thanks I feel and think the same way. I feel that I want to have kids till I have a good education (though my posts show opposite ) , a great job and a wifey. I always find it very unfair for kids that are born with teenage parents that end up splitting up so that's why I want to have kids later on in my life in my 30s. I know that I will only be stronger and be a real man unlike what my mothers sperm donor was.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQ5rllUvx2E"]YouTube - grim reaper - rock you to hell

 

I am surprised to see that the people I like in this forums have gone through the same and am surprised thank you DUck, Death and Lunaverse.

 

I have never met my father. Though I recently did meet my Biological Grandfather a few weeks ago upon his request (and I'm glad I did). He mentioned that I should meet my father at least once... but i'm not so sure. Like your father did, he too talks about me but never has contacted me once in my 26 years of existence. At this moment in my life I would most likely feel like you if my father died. I agree though with it being a huge influence on the type of dad I strive to be. I am gay, but take care of 2 Children who are fatherless and hope to officially adopt them soon...

Lately I've felt like I'm closer to being ready to forgive my father though. I think if he had been in my life that it may have changed things for the worse for me and that I am a better and stronger person for not having him around. Maybe the best thing he could have ever done was stay away?