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i dont speak much but i really needed some help/ support/ something, i asked this chick out and she said she wasnt ready to date any one. but then after a bit she is dating my best friend... the whole thing is making me feel like shit and like i am not good enough. please tell me your thoughts, thank you all

 

That's not even nearly enough detail for me to empathize in any way, shape, or form.

 

She probably just sees you as more of a friend

 

yeah maybe, and sorry on the lack of detail Cherea but its pretty cut and dry. we are friends me and her though distant, and my friend who shes out w/ now and i are still close. theres not much to tell unless u have perticular questions i could answer

 

women lie. get used to it.

 

women lie. men lie. women lie. men lie.

 

just for the record, trannies also lie.

 

yea, you're not good enough for her. he obviously is.

come to terms with it and get over it. whining about it isn't going to make her like you.

 

Unfortunately, people lie about stuff like that.
She just isnt interested in you the way she is in your friend.

 

i suppose i am not good enough natural philosophy, and sorry about my whining but the fact that i dislike my life more than even you i imagine sometimes gets to me. thanks for the words all of you, scincerely, i do mean it thank you for giving me time from your day

 

It sucks, but that's your answer. She didn't dig you, more likely her loss.

Plenty of fish in the sea, it's a cliche but it's only too true.

 

incompatable... yeah guess your right on that one. i guess i can only keep on keepin on as it were

 

It probably wouldn't hurt as much if she didn't go out of her way to lie about it, but chicks get a rush out of lying. It's quite compulsive, really.

 

LOL!! Enigma I just realized that our posts have the same title, lmao. For the record that was unplanned.

 

same name huh, far out. i'm feeling better now about the whole deal. thanks for the encouragement in all forms

 

Maybe she felt it would be easier on him (or easier on her) to say that, rather than saying she wasn't interested.

But, to the OP - she's one woman. I've liked people who weren't interested, it's not nice, but not worth moping around over.

 

If you think she was bad, wait until you get married....

 

i dont view that as lying. Thats pretty much what ive told every guy thats ever asked me out when I wasn't into him. Its a hell of a lot easier than saying "sorry. I just dont like you. You bore me and I think you're kind of stupid" it also doesn't mean your friend is better than you, it just means hes better than you for her.

 

so it's not lying if you lie to everyone?

sure, it's easier for you to lie about it; that's generally why people lie. it would be a lot easier for the guy if you just told him what was up instead of stringing him along though.

 

Just understand that even though things didn't work out great for you, things always work out like they're supposed to, so just try and be happy for your friend, and keep your eyes open. The right person will come along sooner or later.

Best of luck