I like my partner's wife

Can't find a similar thread so I'm trying to start my own. I'm new so if I'm out of order let me know. Be nice please.
A few months ago a new friend and I bought a dilapidated house to fix up and sell. When I met his wife it was like wow! What a good looking, sexy gal. I was attracted immediately. She has been working with us on weekends and I like her more and more, and I know she is attracted to me. Its a bit distractive really. Whenever I try to steal a look at her she is looking over at me and looks quickly away, smiling shy like.
The thing now is my partner hinted she might be available when he and I were out for a few beers after work. He said it was easy to tell we were attracted to each other and then laughed it off nervous like. Then he said things like he doesn't own her and hints that he and she have an understanding that other people might find unusual.
The turn in the converation surprised me, basically because she doesn't impress me as the type of woman who would have one night stands and such, so I didn't say anything to keep it going. I've been kicking my butt ever since. I'm obviously not very experienced in this stuff.
So now what do I do? Start another conversation with him? Come on to her? I don't want to do anything to fuck up a new friendship, or a partnership, but I am dying to fuck this cutie. Any suggestions are appreciated.

 

if they have an agreement, and she wants to, she'll make the move. i wouldn't do anything in case you just read her and him wrong.

 

I think it's basically up to them, most likely your partner/friend, to approach you for such a hookup. They have the relationship, and you're just the friend.

They may have an open relationship where such hookups are okay with them, but they set the guidelines beforehand, and don't want any drama to follow afterwards...drama like you not being able to control your feelings after hooking up with her. It sounds like you already have mad feelings for her, and that might be a problem if you sleep with her?

I think the more you spend time with them, the more you'll likely find out if such a get together is possible.

 

I would leave it alone. Your buddy does not seem comfortable with the idea or going any further with it. I wouldnt ask him again. Just do your work and keep doing it... keep your friendship loyality.

If the wife, does approach you, do tell your friend, and see where he goes with the idea. But know the friendship could always be penelazied after over such actions.

 

Hmmm....fucking your friend/new business partner's wife.



Surely, there's nothing that could go wrong here.

 

Don't shit where you eat?

 

Wait till you've done up the house and sold it first, it could get ugly otherwise!

 

I think that sums it up quite nicely.

Leave this one alone!

 

Or "Don't dip your pen in company ink." This is why I try to keep my life very compartamentalized.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

I say go for it! There needs to be at least one devil in this thread. If you want her and she wants you, and your friend said he would understand, then honestly I don't see what you're waiting for.

 

Say, guys, thanks for the views. Much appreciated. I got to talk with my friend and partner again this weekend and dug a little more out of him. He basically said that he wouldn't mind if his wife wanted to be with another man sexually, and when he spoke with her about it she said it wasn't going to happen, but thanks anyway.

I'm not surprised because she doesn't seem like the type. It's still agony for me. I actually got to kiss her on her forhead - lol - when she was feeling a little blue the other day. She kept her forearms in front of her to keep a respectable distance between us but let me enclose her in my arms while I sympathised with her. I guess that's all I'll ever get.

 

What the fuck?

I really don't agree with any of these peeps. He opened up the conversation; I don't see why no one here would have the balls to open it back up.

Sucks that she wasn't into it, but since you mention they are newer friends, and you may not know their propensity for drama, it probably is best

 

Just flop it out one day and see if she goes for it. What is the worst that can happen - she will shoot you through the head with a nail gun?!
Seriously though, you might be surprised what happens with her. She may well jump you one day when he isn't around, but don't be surprised if as soon as she cums she is off, never to return. Women can have funny motivations and very mixed up feelings about that sort of thing. You might want to start carrying condoms, and beware letting her cum before you do, as she might have very selfish motivations. And herpes.

 

Maybe she will let you do it and then call it rape. Or blackmail you. Or deliberately get pregnant to spite her husband who is secretly gay. Or just tell your wife as she never did like you, and always secretly hated her for her life. Or maybe she is nuts, and will stalk you and make death threats, and send pictures of the two of you to your parents and boss.

I say go for it!

 

I love it how men already claim their wives thoughts, as if shes a peice of cow or something. Got the hopes up, then down... Sad huh? More fish in the sea

 

Forget about it and move on.

 

I don't get guys who lust over other peoples wives openly. I get you can be attracted to a hot woman regardless of conditions but really developing a infatuation for her... have some fucking honor.

 

If I were her, I'd be flattered at least. Why the hell did she smile at you? However, I am the type that loves that kind of attention. I find it attractive.
With the guy not seeming to have a problem with it, I'd say keep trying. But since she acted like she didn't want you near her when you kissed her on the forehead, you're wasting your time.
Don't be the annoying friend that continues to try to get at her.

 

We are about 98% done and have already talked with a real estate agent about selling it. I guess we're not the brightest bulbs in the lamp because the agent tells us we're already upside down on the value. We've got about 180K invested (not including all our fucking time) and she says the house is worth maybe that much but not worth more. We can't afford to sell because we would still have to pay the agency fee of 7%. The news is not all bad though because I am moving in for sure and my partner and his wife:love: are considering the same thing, simply because it's impossible to pay rent for our apartments on top of the debt service on this house.

If they move in with me, the opportunities are staggering. My partner has a regular 9 - 5 job and I am a fireman.

Sounds like somebody is fucking your wife, Dude.

I'm going to take your first advice, HG. She really is kind of accepting that I like her. Her smiles are very bright when we greet and her hugs are definitely getting warmer, plus she seems to hold on a bit longer when we part - with an extra special cheek-to-cheek. Don't worry, i won't be annoying.

This (my indecision) has definitely gone on too long. I just wish I had some experience in seducing someone else's wife. This one does seem vulnerable and even if she and her husband don't move in with me I am going to give her the opportunity to turn me down, very soon.

 

Don't, man!

Don't hint, or dig any further into your business partner's wife.
You heard nothing, you think nothing, in fact, as far as sex goes you're hard of hearing and a little thick.

There are 10 gazillion ways that this could screw up your business relationship.
Hear nothing, see nothing, think nothing is the surest route to safety.