Would you be mad if your other did Foxy with someone while you were out of town?

Just curious what some of you guys think about this...
I left Florida to visit friends and family and go to a festival in Kentucky. My boyfriend stayed at home. I really don't give much of a shit about him doing drugs while I'm gone, thats not the issue.
So today on the evilness that is Facebook... Our friend made a comment that he sold my boyfriend Foxy. Apparently he and another guy did the Foxy at my house. He told my roommate to not say anything because I would think he was cheating on me. We have done Foxy together, he knows what the drug is good for and that it is a SENSORY ENHANCER. I called him and confronted him about it today and he said he wasn't hiding it from me and if I would have asked him he would have told me... Why on earth would I ever think he would be doing Foxy with another guy?!?!? On top of that I had to hear it from a third party!
Would any of you be upset if your significent other did Foxy with another person while you were out of town??

 

I'm confused, is your boyfriend bisexual?

 

Maybe they just jerked off in front of one another.

Just cause certain drugs enhance sexual feelings doesn't mean he's using it to hook up with chicks... or blokes... 0.o

 

I think the only real sketchy part is that he told your room mate not to say anything. For not trying to hide it, that sounds a lot like trying to hide it. haha. But I sort of agree with Irminsul aside from that. Just because when you took it with him you two got down doesn't necessarily mean that is what he was using it for with this male friend. I suppose you could just ask him about what they did while on it. And you can either believe what he tells you or not.

 

Depends on how close/intimate you two are, the nature of your relationship. That would be a lie of omission in my marriage, but that's different from what you got going. Assuming your bf is not bi and they didn't dose too high, i doubt any thing sensual happened, though i am still waiting to try this one and only know its sister Moxy.

 

Although this is irrelevent, to clear it up, I believe they are all 3 males.

Anyhow I don't know anything about Foxy, so I don't think I am qualified to answer the question.

 

he doesnt deserve someone like you..willing to control every move even from afar...such dedication is rare and maybe not a quality

 

im fucking retarded -_-

 

Eh. The person didn't really specify a gender.

 

I'm not really quite sure what your saying here.

I most likely overreacted, and honestly I never was like this before him. When we first got together he went with a few friends of mine to my ex-boyfriends house while I was asleep and took a bunch of rolls and tried to fuck my ex-boyfriend.

The scene replays in my head and it scares me, that was a major violation of trust. I think if he handled this differently and didn't try to hide it from me I would have reacted a bit differently.

IDK, just wanted to know what some of you thought.

 

Oh jeez, I read the thread title as "...if your mother did Foxy with someone..." I was so confused 'til halfway through the OP.

Hmm, it's hard for me to say because my bf is straight edge so it's hard for me to put myself in that situation. I think the only thing I'd be really mad about is the fact that an opportunity to consume drugs went by without me. But, the part about him wanting to keep it a secret is a little shady... but I think it has more to do with the fact that he was worried about you finding out he did something without you that you 2 enjoy together. I don't think it necessarily implies that anything sexy went on between them. It doesn't make it right or excuse the fact that he tried to hide it, but I wouldn't worry until you find something to be legitimately worried about. I think you did the right thing by confronting him, and talk it out further if you need to before jumping to conclusions.

 

^^^thanks for the reply. and sorry for the confusion! =D