I don't understand

pOly, it's completely up to you if you have the confidence or not. I know, that likely baffles you. It did to me when I was a kid. Just gotta have pride in yourself. Not like you stand up and say "I'm proud of myself!", instead find reasons to be proud of yourself.

 

i have told him i liked him more than once. and his reply is that he does to but doesn't want to date.

 

so basically, you have your eye on one specific guy, and because he isn't interested that means NOBODY is.

move on; sometimes it just doesn't happen with your first choice, which probably means your first choice was wrong.

 

Hey it doesn't baffle me at all what the hell are you talking about, i have a lot of confidence probably too much for my own good. i just admire her confidence....

 

Smart feller (fart smeller).

j/k

 

Has he ever had a GF before, maybe he's too shy to do anything?

 

And he is the only boy on Earth? Boy. Man. Whatever. You get the point, though- he's not. And just because you like him and he likes you does not equate mean it's love. Just see if he wants to go out with you and a few friends for pizza some night.

And if he says no, let it be. Just be acquaintences.

And learn how to smile. Nice pic, needs rotated, but I won't date a woman that can't smile. No I'm not looking at dating you, nor do I want to, but think about what he thinks. Do you smile when others are around? If you don't, then don't count on anyone wanting to hang around you.

If you are offended by that, then learn to smile. Learn to be happy. And get rid of that pic and get one that has you smiling. And have it rotated so it's upright.

If you want to attract friends, don't push them away with your own wants. You can have those, but sometimes you have to help your friends have their wants. You help them, they help you, it's called team work and respect.

IMO.

 

yea, i am interested in this one guy, but that doesn't mean i am not paying attention to other people. but no one as given any sign of being interested in me.

i am the type of person that is almost always smiling and laughing. and i talk to everyone who talks to me. i am shy sometimes but i try not to be.

i know that just because i like him and he likes me its not love. But we get along really well and always make each other laugh so i feel like it would be stupid to let that go to waste.

and honestly i am ok with not dating him even though i want to. but getting over him isn't easy when he still flirts.

 

I would agree with everyone who said, "it takes time"

Be patient, it'll happen.
And just because you don't think anyone wants you,
doesn't mean they don't.
You probably just dont know it yet.

 

Exactly. It just takes time.

AquaticZoe, I'll have you in my prayers that things get better for you.