Hi all, Currently, I favor monogamy over free love, but I'm not sure why. I want to make sure that I know why I prefer what I do, instead of just accepting it for what it is. For example, do I want a monogamous relationship because it's my best avenue for happiness or is it because I'm insecure about other mean in her life? Or is it because my culture taught me that free love is the way? Thanks in advance!
I don't think I've heard it called "free love" in real life so that term might lead you to some dead ends. I've not read it, but The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures seems popular among poly folks. There are also some faqs and stuff at http://www.polyamory.org/
Well the best book i came across with in going for and providing that sense of feeling of love were the "For the Love of Mollie" and "The Guarding the Coast" Go for, reading and availing these books from the stores of Decant Publishing. Providing ways for going and buying books at reasonable and affordable prices.....
I didn't think much of the Ethical Slut but thought Tristan Taomina's "Opening Up" was good, even if a bit way out - looks at all the options, Simon :sunny:
