So I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 2 months and pretty much fucking her for that long too. I was a virgin before her so I'm new to all of this. Anyway last month she got her period really early in the month, and she hasn't gotten it yet this month so it's making me nervous. She said she'll either get it in the next few days or she'll get it at the end of the month because ever since she took birth control it messed up her cycle. I'm not sure if she's just telling me this to comfort me meanwhile she's not too sure or if she's telling the truth. Answer?
A lot of women have really fucked up periods. I never know when mine is going to come. Why are you worried? Are you not using condoms? You should be, you know you can go to your local health department or planned parenthood and get free condoms, damnit!
Yea we pretty much don't use condoms. We bought them twice but both times they were way too tight and hurt. We plan on buying more that fit better soon though.
Can't you just ask her what's going on? This is kind of a big thing, and if she's lying she shouldn't be having sex in the first place.
go check out the price of diapers and baby stuff then go to the mall and listen to babies cry I bet they wont feel so tight after that.
Really? You're chancing a future filled with kids and/or hard, life-changing decisions that you're obviously not ready for if you're so worried. Birth control messed with my hormones and my cycle terribly so she is probably telling the truth. If you're not ready to take on this responsibility and you're confused and not trusting of her birth control, I don't understand the thought process in not wanting to be double-sure.
You're ob not ready for kids.. so a condom not fitting or feeling not right isnt an excuse. Do you want to be teenage parents.. I doubt it. Do you have enough financial freedom to have kids? I dont think so. So get condoms quickly. Im glad to hear your girlfriend is on the pill... she is likely teling the truth. Period do get messed up at some points of the cycle. And use a condom even if shes on the pill.. the younger are you.. the safer it is to be.
Why not put her orgasm at the centre of your lovemaking by focussing on giving her oral sex. She will really enjoy it, won't be able to wait for you to go down on her again, and when your good she'll experience the most awesome earth-shattering orgasms. That way you'll feel really liberated and begin to enjoy sex more, through her.
seriously, I dated a guy who was scary big and he found condoms. Blow one up. they STRETCH. it might feel weird, but so does childbirth. people who make excuses like that should not breed, ever.
Lol bro I'd just get condoms nobody likes paying those child support checks (from what I can see) if and when shit doesn't work out.
Obviously the op is way too young and irresponsible to be having sex. Either stop having sex, or stop making excuses and buy some condoms. Being safe shouldn't take the back seat to momentary pleasure.
Why is everyone ripping this kid? Shes taking birth control. It seems like they are on the right path then most. Every method has a failure rate and practicing two methods is always better then the one. I'm not going to preach about what he should or shouldn't be doing, fact is..he's doing! So to answer the question. Her cycle like many of womens, while often regulated from birth control...is often all over the place. If shes having alot of sex...that may disturb the cycle some also. I'd say shes telling the turth... If your worried about it, use two methods. It sounds to me like you were going to use two methods until the condoms were uncomfortable and then just went with the one method. So yeah, you are being responsible.
maybe she is lying maybe she is not, however, speaking from experience some women period don't always regulate as it show, sometimes it comes late or early, some women don't even get it one month in a year
I'm going to assume all is well in OPland. He has posted many times since the start of this thread in June. No mention of any kids so it looks OK. I do hope he heeds the advice everyone gave him.
did you try female condoms, or the diaphram, or foam, or the sponge? I hate condoms too, being a male. however they are not the ONLY way to prevent pregnancy. You are stupidly risking both of your futures.
