clingy people

I dont like them. They need to grow up and get a life. I was clingy around 16 but I grew out of that shit. Now Im meeting them and I find how annoying it really is. Yesterday this guy who likes me, kept trying to sit by me, I moved every time. This is after I told him "I dont know you" in text about 5 times.

Another is a person who took photos of me for a job and now he wont stay away. Always wanting to hang out, do this, do that and I give him a lame excuse. it got freaky last night when I was dancing to a band and I just happen to look over and he was sitting right behind me. I quickly moved with my friend.

I dont know--a clingy person that gets freaky, kinda worries me and makes me mad.

Weirdos!

 

When this happens, it is usually because the person they think they want to hang around with is just too wonderful. Usually they eventually catch on that they are not.

 

Im awesome and all *kills ego* but Im just a spacey person. I cant hang with the same person every day. It bores me. I wish he would get that. I told him plenty of times too

 

but I love you? I know i've only read your posts, but I feel a strong spiritual connection between us..

wanna be my girlfriend?

 

Stop dude. She's clearly already used to it. :coffee:

 

struck out then, huh?

 

Don't take it personal. Lol.

 

I wasn't referring to myself, actually..

 

I hope you're not referring to me!

 

Marriage is going to be interesting then.

 

It was all just spoken with so much conviction. Like a man talking as if he really knows that she has had enough

after years of stalking, a restraining order and even falling from the tree outside of Stacy's window, you finally got the hint

 

Lol, I dont know about marriage. that can be on hold..forever

 

Just be straight up with him. Just say no offense but sorry man I don't wanna be friends with you. Or yo guy I don't wanna sit by you. and if he keeps doing it tell him that he's making you very uncomfortable.

Personally though i love when woman get clingy with me haha. I like the feeling of people wanting me haha. and i love to cuddle with women haha.

 

sounds to me like youre the one who needs a life... a social life. people like you are why making friends is so hard in our society because is a fucking anti social asshole not wanting anything to do with people they meet while theyre out and about. creepy stalkerdom and people wanting to be your friends are 2 different things. you sound like a bitch

 

You sound like the clingy one to me - clinging to the familiar. You don't know someone so you can't sit next to them? C'mon get off your high horse. Life is boring when you're unwilling to talk to strangers, I couldn't live like that and I don't like girls who are like that. I hope these guys got the picture and realized you're a twat and moved on to someone friendlier.

Right on, I really don't like ppl who have their set group of friends and can't talk to anyone else. It's antisocial.

 

Things I have learned in nursing school regarding being responsible that apply to real life socializing:

1) Always keep your promises. If you say you're going to hang out tomorrow, you do it. You don't blow people of. If you say you'll be back in 10 minutes, be back in 10 minutes.

2) Know when to disclose the truth and when to keep your mouth shut.

3) If asked a direct question, NEVER LIE. EVER.

4) Be sensitive and compassionate when it comes to the needs of those you care for.

5) Be willing to go to bat for what is ethical. If someone bothers you by saying or doing something crude, don't admonish them in front of others. Pull them aside. This is the only way you can save face and your ass at the same time. Trust me.

 

Clingy people are cute.

 

Second that

 

lol this thread is still going on?

first of all. i told this guy get the hell away from me, the first day i met him. hes a pill head and mentally unstable. why would i enjoy someone like that? and he kept on bothering me, so i had to be a bitch and tell him to fuck off. never talked to me again.

Im an easy going person to get along with but not in these situations.

so fuck you for those who dont know me and say mean things.

 

Pssh, people say anti-social like it's a bad thing. I'm terribly anti-social and I'm not ashamed in the least bit. Only time I'm remotely social is online or at work because being friendly and sociable is in my job description. But yeah...I get uncomfortable in social situations and I tend to avoid social interaction a good majority of the time. Fuck it, though, that's just who I am, and if you can't accept it, not my problem.