is anyone here into reading or writing sex stories? ever wanted to try it? do you like the idea of it?
I write sex stories. I don't read sex stories much, though, because most of them are horrendous. I do like the erotic stories of Henry Miller and Anais Nin.
henry miller? tropic of cancer...? i think that came into the thrift shop once where i used to work...caused a bit of a stir amongst the old ladies
I'm not referring to Tropic of Cancer as one of Henry Miller's sex stories, even though it has its raunchy moments. I'm thinking more of Under the Roofs of Paris.
I used to read them, but I don't have a whole lot of time to do that anymore. I think they're a great tool, especially for women. My husband gets a bit miffed if he catches me reading one, but I really don't see the harm. He says that if he was looking at "porn" that I'd have a fit, so why is it that it's okay for me to do it. He says that I shouldn't be able to look at it either, but I don't consider reading erotica to be porn. It's not like I'm drooling over actual visual images of people, I'm reading, and that, at least to me, is a whole different thing than looking at actual real-life sexual pictures. It's hard for me to understand how one can be threatened by mere words! Peace.
ok.. I gotta stand up for your man here and tell you that you are a total hypocrite. In general.. men get turned on by visual-stimuli.. women get turned on by other things like eg. a romantic/erotic story. The fact that he likes porn doesn't mean he wants the fuck like they do on those movies or that he wants you to become like one of those pornstars. It's just fun to do and there's no harm. Do you really want to control him like that? Just because YOU don't like to watch at porn doesn't mean that porn in itself is bad. A lot of men AND women (myself included) enjoy watching it every now and then.. and unless you're into kiddieporn I really don't see a problem. If it's about you being insecure about your body of your mans faithfullness or whatever.. then it's YOUR problem.. but don't make it his. He can help you feel good about yourself.. but you won't get that by forbidding things to him.. seriously. Sorry if that was a bit harsh.. it's just a huge double standard to me.
hey Velvet! please stick to the topic and stay out of other's personal lives I like to read good erotica but there isn't a lot out there that really gets me going. I write it much better myself I think. At least I write about what I find sexy and erotic.
helo retroGgrove grrl ,your stories are good for me? i love the one about your clit ,tell me more,you little turn on,peace LOL,
hello headymoechick ,your my type of girl ,i could suck your clit all day ,once your happy your demand would be my wish =)
Yes I have written a few lol but didnt get to finish any yet. Me and my friend Madison use to be obssessed with romance novels, or sophisticated porn we call it lol
Geez, calm down sweetheart. For your information, my husband does not care much for porn anyhow, and because I'm not exactly fond of him looking at it, it's not a problem. I even asked him last night how he felt about it. He wanted to know where the heck I came up with that one. I said that I wondered if he felt "deprived" because he doesn't look at porn and he started cracking up. He said no, that he did not feel deprived at all. He knows that I'm not comfortable with it, and because he's not really into it anyhow, he feels that my feelings are much more important than that. That's what happens when you love someone. It's give and take, and that is what we do. Yes, I tend to be controlling, I can admit that. But not being crazy about my husband looking at porn is not an issue of control. There is more to it than that, but I really don't feel like it's worth discussing with someone who has already lambasted me. So before you jump all over my case, please don't judge me. You really don't know me, my relationship, or my history. Knowing some of that might change your reaction to things. Have a wonderful day.
Ok.. I think I owe you an apology.. I gave you way to little credit Sorry! As you may have noticed I tend to be a little controlling as well.. *grin*.. I just have this thing with double standards and I jumped to conclusions too early. Glad you and your hubby have such a wonderful relationship.. Thanks for not bashing me completely!
Back to the orginal topic I write erotic stories as well. I've got a purple notebook full of sexy stories of my hubby and I, and erotic poetry. Sometimes if I get a chance and I'm feeling in the mood but my man is not home at the moment, I will write. That way, I can keep hold of those sexy thoughts for later on. Peace, love, and happiness...
