Your Thoughts Please.

Discussion in 'Birth Control' started by Matt :), Jul 22, 2010.

  1. Matt :)

    Matt :) Member

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    I recently had sex with a girl, at the time we had no condoms on either of us, we had unprotected sex, however she says she is on the pill and i pulled out befor i came maybe about 3mins before i came from here wanking me. whats the possibilities that she could be pregnant?
    Also i had a pee before we had sex.
     
  2. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    I once dated a girl for two years and we had unprotected sex the whole time as she was on the pill. The odds are in your favour. However if you are that worried, next time there is the 'morning after pill' option (this seems to make many women sick) or there is the 'use a condom' option. Good luck :)

    Oh, and welcome to Hip Forums :) (if you decide to stay)
     
  3. Matt :)

    Matt :) Member

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    Thanks because im feeling kinda paranoid at the moment. next time i will be using a condom its just it wasnt planned it just happend.
     
  4. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    How long ago was said encounter?
     
  5. Matt :)

    Matt :) Member

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    About 2am GMT so about 15 hours ago.
     
  6. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    Well, since it hasn't been very long you can suggest she go to a clinic for the morning after pill. I mean, considering she's on the pill it's probably no big deal, however you may not know whether she really is on it or not. You said it wasn't planned, people have lied about worse things in the heat of the moment. You could "wait and see" also, but you may not feel comfortable doing so. And whether you are young, or just don't want children yet, it may not be something you can be overly cautious about.
     
  7. wallflower23

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    i dont think you have to worry too much, especially pulling out 3 mins before. one of my friends used the pull out method for 2 years with his ex and she wasnt on the pill and nothing ever came of it, so i think youre good lol.
     
  8. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    Yea, but your statistic is as irrelevant as mine. Some one else could have done the exact same thing as your friend, only his girlfriend got preganant a few months after doing so. This is a subjective matter.

    Yea, although he pulled out early, women have gotten pregnant from pre-cum. It happens.
     
  9. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    Q2. What are the chances of getting pregnant from this ('withdrawal' and pre-ejaculate)?

    There is no way anyone could give you the odds on a pregnancy without an ejaculation as there are many variables involved. There could be a very small number of active sperm in your pre-ejaculate, but could those swim and fertilize and egg? Who knows. Did your partner ovulate, etc. There is no way to calculate this risk. Don't have unprotected sex, ever. Unless you want to conceive. The worrying and waiting is not worth the risk of taking a chance! If you know you ejaculated, then you might talk to your partner about emergency contraception. I am not recommending that here, just mentioning it as a very, very last resort. For more read about it.

    http://www.steadyhealth.com/Pre_cum___Pregnancy__YES_____t78339.html
     
  10. Matt :)

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    Well thanks for the replys everyone, i did mension i had a pee before we had sex, and as i am aware does this eliminate sperm present in the pre-cum?
    Also i am 20 years old. and it was with my Boss from work :S
     
  11. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    To be honest man I can't say it any better than my last reply. When something is worrying someone they'll think of or say anything to ease their mind, I used to do it all the time. But you never know until you know. You could either get it dealt with and out of the way and move on with your life, or you could potentially spend the next 4 or more weeks worrying about it.

    Peeing before hand doesn't have anything to do with it. When men are fucking someone else, or even masturbating, small amounts of pre-cum does come out at random intervals. All it takes is just a bit. I say get her to go for the morning after if you're that worried. I've gotten women to do it. They may get a headache or feel a little nauseous, but that's a small price to pay.
     
  12. Matt :)

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    Ok Thanks for the advice, i might get her to have a pregnancy test or something how long should i wait?
     
  13. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    She's definitely pregnant, 100% certainty. Good luck, daddy!!
     
  14. Matt :)

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    Lmao thanks for that imaginary :p
     
  15. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    :D

    Nah, trust me, you're fine. The pill works pretty dandy, and if you pulled out early you are really narrowing your possibility a long way. If she is, it's an anomaly and very unexpected.
     
  16. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    Morning After Pill
    Plan B is simple to use
    And remember the sooner you take it the more effective it is.

    plan B is two pills which you take together. If taken within 72 hours, it prevents pregnancy by doing one of three things:

    Temporarily stops the release of an egg from the ovary
    Prevents fertilization
    Prevents a fertilized egg from attaching to the uterus
    plan B is not an abortion pill—if you take plan B you will not be terminating a pregnancy.

    If you are already pregnant and take plan B, there’s no evidence that plan B will harm you or the fetus.

    http://www.planb.ca/how.html

    Pregnancy Test
    Well I know that the 20 IU can detect 6-8 days after..I dont know if this means 6-8 after intercourse or 6-8 days after you get pregnant. But it can detect before you miss your period. However, if you keep getting negative and you're not getting your period you should really go to a doctor and get a blood test. If it's still negative you need to seek professional medical advice.
     
  17. MissEmma

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    In my mind birth control is a form of protection. But if you don't know her well you never know. Crazy bitches lie about that sort of shit. It is more than likely fine. If not, the universe may or may not be out to get you.
     
  18. Kista

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    Some girls bodies take longer to inpreg.. like my friend who has unproteced sex for a year with the pull out method.. it is because she will have trouble convicing a child - as her doc said. As for the pull out method.. there is still pre-cum, so dont just think of what your buddy did, or if its 1, 2, 5 10 mins before cumming, it doesnt matter. Use a condom, or get her on the pill.
     
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