Married with a few questions...

Hi all. I have a few questions as a FNG here I don't want to offend anybody or step on any ones toes so I will do my best. I have been happily married to my beautiful wife of 13 years who is 11 years older then me. I am just an average guy, well kinda, I hate sports unless I am playing them, but I love cars and women. But then what is normal. Normal is a figment of ones imagination, right? For the last three years we have experimented with different things in bed to include sharing our bed with friends. And a few times on our own. My wife had a great night with my friend and his girlfriend while I was gone for three months at work. I love hearing her tell me about her experiences later. We have both always been openminded twards anything. We have no prejudices for the most part. For the last few years I have been bi-curious and have wanted to experiment. My wife loved the bi experiences she has had but always says a woman still can't take my place.
We have actually found someone that is curious too, a close friend and we have talked about it quite a bit, but have yet to have time to do it between me having hernia surgery 4 months ago and being busy. We want to try everything though. My question is what has everyone else done when they get together to initiate it if you have never tried it. I mean I know it is like just a normal day of having friends over initially but how do you create the mood to initiate it? My wife willl be there too so it won't be just us two. So any suggestions?

 

Try a 'dare' game or somethihg like strip poker that starts the clothes coming off; or consequences...........

Lights low, laid bak music, some weed?

Hey man if everybody is there for the purpose then there will be a few erections to spot..........

Simon

 

drinks and porn will always work!

 

As long as everyone is on the same page as to what everyone is there for, then you are a go. If you had a hot tub or sauna, you would be off and running. Like mentioned above, games, a drink or joint would lighten the mood.
As long as it's going to be an open exchange of pleaure, you should all have a good time. Good Luck