I don't understand

Alright, so i am feeling pretty shitty.
mostly because i am not wanted by anyone.
i honestly do not understand.
What is wrong with guys???

 

Brace yourself, you are about to get a mail box full of invites.

 

have no fear sunshine, your dealing with boys, no understanding of how to deal with the changes in their bodies.is probably the last you want to hear, but be patient.
peace

 

Well, you assume that there is something wrong with men in general because none currently want you. If you're really wondering what's wrong, that's a good place to start.

 

bah,, this chick is 16,,, have you seen what 16 year old boys are like these days?
and you want her to blame herself?
no, in herds, these kids have the mtv sex ed class down pat, treat em like shit,lie to them and about them ,then call em whores when they shoot off to quick cause they are clueless about WOMEN

 

your very pretty, gorgeous eyes... I'd guess that they may be nevrous around you...Don't but too much stock in boys your age... Maintain self respect, don't do anything slutty...be up front and honest.

Are you shy? could that be impacting how guys interact with you? Are you really outgoing dealing with really shy guys?

All in all, don't put too much stock in guys your age , give it few years...give'em a chance to grow up.

 

Yeeeeeah. LOL! Come on, when I was 16, I was clean, cleat cut, in shape, but girls wouldn't come near me. They were into the guys screwing around with drugs and booze.
At the same time they would complain about how they couldn't find any decent guys. I was like WTF?

Out of all the girls I remember going to school with (not ALL, but those I remember) nearly everyone of them had a baby before the turned 18, and at least 2/3 now (25 years latter) have some weird STD.

AquaticZoe before anyone can love you, you must love yourself first.

 

I think your problem is that you are desperate and young.

Life doesn't work like it does in the TV and movies -- this stuff takes time. You rush it, and you only give yourself problems.

Forget about boys until you actually find one

 

wisdom.

 

Back when I was a teenager...shy, fear of rejection....I remember my friend asking this really hot girl out and she just laughed in his face....growing up was a riot but it wasnt easy.

 

you're 16 don't worry about boys right now. enjoy your life and figure out who you are and what you love about yourself.

it only seems like nobody wants you because youare hyperfocused on certain losers. just take a step back and enjoy the fact that you have your whole life ahead of you to fall in love and get your heart broken, many times.

 

And it doesn't get any easier when you turn 18, either.

I'm 40, and not only am I single but I can't find any women to date and I can't find a job.

 

i am comfortable with who i am, and i need to wait to find someone who loves me for who i am.
i don't think i am shy, but i do think i am not the kind of girl most people would choose to be with, at least where i live.
thank you all for the input. i really needed some of that advise.

 

How do you know? Were you rejected by anyone in particular?

 

Love begins yourself and ends with loving people as they are. People are just learning to flirt at your age. The whole thing gets a lot easier when you're 25 and no longer afraid of rejection, because you meet people everywhere and aren't afraid to seize opportunity. Look at this time in your life as "practice time" to flirt and have fun, and if you mess up, in a few years you'll be moving away to college where you meet all new people.

 

if i recall correctly, "time " and" "wait till you get older" were the absolute worst things to hear when i was that age.and i heard it all the time.

ahh the angst of youth,,,
but in most cases it is very valid.of course, you usually have to walk that road to find out.

tread safely sister
peace

 

When people choose who they want to be with, it's usually rather shallow.

True love just happens.

 

yea i was, but no one else is showing any interest either.

 

You are young still, boys at your age are fucking retards, no offense guys.

Can I give you one piece of advice: *smile*

you have a face for art

 

Trust me, you'll be fine.