how do i initiate sex with a girl?

i am a 23 year old male who just lost my virginity a couple weeks ago. ive had sex with that same girl once since then, but now whenever it comes to initiating sex with her a kinda freeze up and cant think of anything to say. its obvious that shes into me but i dont just wanna ask her "you feel like having sex?" or something like that. what are some ways to get the ball rolling without feeling like im asking for her permission or somehow tricking her into it?

 

dont ask, just start eating her pussy

 

then apologize for consuming her cat, tell her you were nervous

she will find it cute, and will definitely hump you.

 

:rofl:

 

Did you ask the first two times?

Just start making out and let it get hot and heavy. Go from there, if she wants it you'll know.

 

Sometimes just outright asking can be an easy way. If she's as into it and wants it as well, she'll probably just say, "yea" or something like that.

Asking doesn't work with all women though.

 

Start with a back rub and move around into uncharted territory. That'll get her going pretty quickly if she already digs you.

 

At what point are you freezing up? Once you've already hit it, it's usually not too tricky to do it again, but tell us where your sticking point is and we'll try to help.

 

I'd never really take just being asked seriously without some other indicator that he's serious, like caressing my body, passionate kissing, a certain look etc. The key is confidence. Just grab her and kiss her and slide your hands over her (obviously in a subtlish way...don't attack her) and if she's not that into it you'll be able to tell and you can just cool it off or keep it as a nice grope session :eggnog: But really, how many girls can resist knowing they're that wanted?

 

I knew there was a reason I liked you so much

 

maybe you should look at this another way; what can you do to make her initiate sex?

 

i thought it was the eyebrows

 

I almost spit up my coffee when you said "you feel like having sex". Someone actually tried that on me before. I invited him over and we were watching fear and loathing in las vegas. He wanted to smoke a bowl so we went upstairs and I handed him my pipe and we were just laying in bed and he's like..sooo wanna fuck? just randomely. I said no, but eventually we did because he explained it really nice and I guess I was shy. He made it sound more free love then..hey...mind if I stick this in you. It was more I want to feel good you want to feel good lets feel good together.

 

Dude, just be confident, but not cocky, and you'll be fine. Girls love a confident man. Just be yourself, treat her well, show confidence and everything else will take care of itself.

 

this will never fail, SAY: I want to eat your box!