Theres already 10 billion of these threads here...

...one more wont hurt.


So Im 17, almost 18, and Ive never kissed a girl.

not to try to make myself look cool online or anything, but, Im not bad looking.. (ive been told by numerous girls that im hot) and im not super introverted or anything, (I have a ton of chick friends, and i think im pretty likeable) but my parents made me go to an all boys school, and I never really bothered with the whole girlfriend thing, I just never put up the effort to find one. (despite numerous `things` where me and a girl liked each other, and talked about it, but it was always with someone who lived a few hours away, or someone that a met on vacation or something, and they never went anywhere)

well.. as of three weeks ago im in a public school, and am already friends with quite a few hot (and probably experienced) seniors, and the time is fast approching.

i know im not gonna be great, and it takes practice and whatnot, but is there anything i can know in advance that might make me not feel like a total failure?

any advice, or flames are welcome...

 

don't become friends with girls you're interested in.

 

I got my first kiss at 19. lost my virginity an hour later. when the girl found out she was surprised, she had no idea.

I was a nervous wreck back then so im sure I was stressing over whether I was good or not but I fucked her a few more times after, so I cant have been that bad.

Just relax, enjoy it, and most importantly when you do end up fucking a girl do not think that shes "the one" that youve found your dream girl, that youll be together, blah blah, just dont invest any emotions into it, because if all it was was casual sex to her you dont want to feel upset over it and obsess over her.

of course if you actually forge a relationship its a different story, but if its just a random encounter then trust me, treat it as only sex.

and finally, yes, do not enter the "friend zone" with girls you want to fuck.

 

Agree completely with the post above.

And don't focus too much on how nervous you are, or you may blow it. Just go with the flow, don't force anything, but show interest. I'm still a virgin (although I've already had my first kiss & other experiences) & I'd say do it when you're ready. A lot of people don't really look at me as being "that virgin guy who has never had pussy" or shit like that. Sometimes it's best to wait.

Over the last five years I've focused more so on educating myself about sex, & my friend, who has lost his virginity & has sex on an almost regular basis even told me that he thinks it's good that I know so much about sex even though I haven't had it yet. And he's right, because the more knowledge you have, the better you will be in the long run, & not just for your first time.

There's a lot to learn about sex, & you'll find yourself still learning things everyday. The main thing I've noticed is that even if it's just sex, pay attention to what the girl wants. Focus on pleasuring her & not just yourself.

Also, if you have any fears about cumming too quickly, I'd recommend masturbating before you have sex. You'll be able to last longer, & it may end up providing you a more enjoyable experience.

 

Im a really good kisser, so ive been told by many girls, not just a few.

1. Act like you know what youre doing, even if you dont. because most girls really suck at kissing anyways.

2. dont use your tongue a lot unless she likes it

3. dont be afraid to go in for the kiss. if she is just looking at you like she wants kissed than go for it, because what girls hate the most is a guy who is too scared to do it. and the worst that can happen is she moves so you kiss her on the cheek. they will probably think it is cute if you go for a kiss and shes not ready.

4. ENJOY IT BRO. dont stress about it. its a great thing between two people and dont even worry about it, just go with the flow

 

i think if you would even be straight up with a girl. just tell her like you know what ive never kissed a girl but id really like to kiss you. then that would really break the ice and you would have nothing to worry about it because she would probably help you to not be so nervous

 

mission accomplished.....lol


Just got back from a party, and me and this girl were talking for a few hours and dancing.

I dont really know how it started, it just kinda happened. But the `act like you know what youre doing` advice was great.. the first kiss wasnt awsome, but I made sure to do shit with my hands, and I caught on pretty fast.

Im pretty positive that shes pretty inexperienced, because she apoligised for the first one.. `uh.. sorry, that wasnt very good.. can we try again?`

after that it got noticably better, and we sat in the corner making out for a while..

any suggestions on what to do when making out besides just kinda taking turns putting your tongues in each others mouths..? (like i said, she didnt seem experienced, so all I could really do was what i was learning from her.. )

 

Yeah, the friend zone BLOWS, I've been in my room, on my bed, making out like mad with one of my best friends (we were drunk) that I think is one of the most gorgeous women ever and she stopped right then and there and said we shouldn't do it. We were seriously like 5 minutes from being butt naked and doing the deed. Blue balls