How often do you have sex?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by barefootlocks, Aug 23, 2010.

  1. barefootlocks

    barefootlocks Senior Member

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    Read a few different things before that said the average couple only has sex like 4 times a week? Is this true? I know my bf and I both have high libidos, but we have sex like 7-10 times a week. Just wondering if anyone else out there is in a serious long-term relationship and still has a VERY healthy sex-life.

    Oh, and what do you guys in long-term relationships do to spice it up?
     
  2. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    Once - 4 times a week. But we both live at home still and only see each other a couple of times a week.

    We still have a VERY healthy sex life, and are still exploring our sexualities together (after 3 1/2 years)

    Oh, and the spicing it up thing: try new things!! Always. It's fun. Unless it's not, then you only do it one more time to make sure =P
     
  3. jia

    jia Member

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    At least once a day. If I go more than 2 weeks I probably am clinically insane.
     
  4. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    not enough. with my ex fiance it was at least 3 times a week since he was far away. Now I'm with someone new and we haven't had sex yet. Trying to take it slow but I'm going crazy. lol
     
  5. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Probz like once a day averaged a week.
     
  6. NotHighEnough

    NotHighEnough Member

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    Not enough... my girl lives 4 hours away... When we're together we go at it like rabbits but that's generally only every other weekend...
     
  7. SG69

    SG69 Member

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    I don't have sex too often, I'm single and generally only have sex if I'm with someone.
     
  8. Thorabeard

    Thorabeard Member

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    Oh I'd say about 7-10 times a week. ;)
     
  9. creedlespeek

    creedlespeek Member

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    Honestly, in a relationship, I had sex maybe three times a week. It was healthy and normal. If he'd have initiated it more, we'd have had more, but I was definitely satisfied. I wouldn't want it more than five times a week.
     
  10. Thorabeard

    Thorabeard Member

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    If you want it more, why dont you initiate it some?
     
  11. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    it ebbs and flows. sometimes it's every day, sometimes t's every two weeks. lol.

    the more we have, the more we want. sometimes life gets in the way though.
     
  12. deviate

    deviate Senior Member

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    in a relationship, generally once a day or more. sometimes less.

    solo, I jerk off at least once a day and have sex whenever the opportunity presents itself.
     
  13. TheWhiteOne216

    TheWhiteOne216 Member

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    well the last relationship i was in we lived together so we did it at least once every day.... we were together for a little over a year. Moving over 15 hours away is what ended it...

    Live and Let be I guess.

    The way to spice it up I guess is never do it the same way twice.

    Try it some time see how long it takes you before you have to do something you already did.

    Location is a good way to cheat that system...
     
  14. OzNorth

    OzNorth Member

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    It's been about 2 months now
     
  15. Aine6923

    Aine6923 Member

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    When my fiance and I are together, just about every day... when I'm at at school at least once whenever we do see each other...
     
  16. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    4 or 5 times a week we been married 20 years and together 22 so I think we're doin ok.
     
  17. Amyoxl

    Amyoxl Member

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    Pretty often but hard to find the time more than once a day without cutting down on Hipforums.
     
  18. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    ^ lol

    not nearly enough over here. It's been a few weeks. lol I have to masturbate a few times a week (sometimes if I'm in that mood, up to three times in one day) to get by. Sucks living at home and having a boyfriend with no car.
     
  19. Amyoxl

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    Have you tried phone sex with that? My future husband and I used to do that when he was in college and I was still in high school. It was a whole lot of fun. Good times! Good sex!
     
  20. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    We have but half of the time he's at school and at home on the weekends with his grandmother. I'm at home watching my nephew all the time. Not only do we not have privacy to have sex, neither of us can even get alone long enough for phone sex. Sad lol

    Thanks for the suggestion though :)
     

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