For about 6 years iv been into chicks and iv been a player but resently iv been thinking about how it would feel 2 have a dick in me i feel as if i should try it but on the other hand its weird to me i dont want to b with a guy just try it you kno please help me out wat should i do
do you like women? do you like men? just cuz u like anal stimulation, doesn't make you gay. actually that thought doesn't even make sense. being gay is being attracted to the same gender. no small font here that says "and you like to get fucked". if you wanna get fucked, go on some website and meet up with someone. and most gay guys are actually very turned on when u tell them you're bicurious. so experiment.
I just kissed a guy for the first time...lol, as if I didn't just say this on my other post. It was everything I expected it to be in one way, and yet sort of less. He wasn't a particularly good kisser. I guess it depends on the guy. =)
Also, just know that it's okay to be confused. You don't have to figure this out any time soon, or ever. Don't let anyone pressure you into figuring it out, and know that you don't have to go out and have sex with someone just to figure it out. In the end, you won't like that you did that and it could seriously hurt you to act before you were really ready to just because you didn't want to be confused...This message comes 'straight' (lol) from the GLBT National Hotline.
doesn't it matter? if you like boys, you boys. if you like girls, you like girls and if you like both you're just greedy! but serious why label yourself, just be you. my $.02
Everyone here has pretty much been telling you to Just Do It. And, from my experience as a young man, I agree that you shouldn't put too much thot into what you are and in labeling yourself - just go with the flow, follow your inclinations and call it experimentation. You might like it (or in my case find it just a pain in the ass ) but you never know until you experience it.
I think there is probably just an element of curiosity here. From my experience there are a lot of straight guys who have fetishes for same sex activity, but it's usually focussed specifically on the dick and not anal. Personally, I would suggest you do whatever you want and don't worry about what it "makes" you. It could be any number of psychological or emotional things combining to make you want to experience something. And making a statement about your sexuality based on one thought is not sensible IMO. If you want to, give it a go and see how you feel about it then. And if you're sure it's something you'd want to continue to experience, then you can decide if you need to assert your sexuality as anything different to what it is now. But even then, the only people who really need to know anything are the people you want to sleep with. Making a big announcement is just heaping on more attention to something that shouldn't be that important to others unless you plan on sleeping together. I always think people should rethink why they feel the need to "come out". If we didn't place so much importance on making a big drama out of it it actually wouldn't be that much of a big deal. We make it a bigger deal than it is by adding the fanfare and drama. That's my opinion anyway.
