Ex posting nude pics online.

My ex-fiancee is now running his mouth on Facebook telling everyone he's going to post all the nude & dirty pictures and videos of me (taken during the relationship, of course) online. Since everything was done and taken with my consent, I have no recourse but to sit back and wait and see if he's all talk or if he's actually going to do it. What a petty, vindictive man. Karma will exact a big toll for that. Of course he also told me that he "could never hate me and would never do ANYTHING to hurt me." But I'M the hypocrite? The relationship ended MONTHS ago, man, get over it and move on. I sure have...

 

tell everyone, you would show pictures of his dick, but its to tiny..
and say 'think he'd make up for it going down on a girl?> "oh no I cant do that its nasty", he-whines'.. ..
good thing hes mad at girls now, cause his destined to be on the gay scene..

destined to be on the gay scene..

 

What's his email?

>.>

 

Is there a buddy of his that would tell him that's no good?

He's mad at you and won't listen to you.
But is there anyone, who he isn't mad at, that would tell him to act like a man and destroy the files.

Might his mom be willing to talk to him?

 

Unfortunately he has refused to listen to anyone that is trying to tell him it's a bad idea and only listening to the people saying stuff along the lines of "hell yeah, teach that **** a lesson!" I mean, I know he's hurting (he was just released from the hospital after an apparent suicide attempt and was admitted with a supposed 2.31 blood alcohol level.) His problems with drinking are a major reason I broke up with him, now I'm just glad I got out of the situation before I ended up in a legally binding commitment to a suicidal alcoholic with obvious anger issues. *wipes forehead* phew!

As for his email, since it's not my right to distribute his personal information online, I will keep it a secret. (He should do me the same courtesy.)

If he does end up on the gay scene, I just hope he cleans himself up before he puts another person of either gender through this crap.

 

this is sad to hear. i wish all relationships could end on good terms

 

Me too. I have managed to be friends with all but one of my exes since my first boyfriend at age 18. This one will be the second. I don't understand why, if people were friends before they became romantically involved, they can't go back to being friends after the relationship is over? I mean, of course you have to let all the wounds heal and you both have to understand that everything will remain platonic and be on the same page and all, but it's not like you lose the attributes you bonded over originally. I hate this crap. Even if we can't be friends, at least let's agree to an amicable split. you know? Sheesh.

 

He sounds lovely. I think this is one reason I wouldn't do that kind of thing. I hope he gets his head sorted and doesn't do anything with them. Have to wonder the reason why.

 

yeah i feel the same way. but maybe you have to go through this stuff before you can truly be friends. sometimes people keep things locked up and they let it out by doing what hes doing or by saying hurtful things or etc. personally its hard for me to be friends with someone i have loved before because talking to them makes me fall all over again.

 

Wwwhat?


Yeah, cos we all jump around in nightclubs with our shirts off cos we are mad at girls

 

thats awful that he is threatening to do this to you, he sounds like a piece of shit and you are well rid of him.
sorry, i wish i had some decent advive i could give you hun

 

I don't mean to sound like a twonk, but it serves you right

you should never, ever let anyone takes pictures of you naked, unless you want them to go on the internet. We have all heard the stories. Sorry to hear it, but you did it to yourself.

Lesson learned the hard way, I bet.

 

Pff fuck him. That is so immature. Thats really really low. Maybe your best defense is indifference. Maybe being more like so what? Go ahead, I have nothing to be ashamed about would be better, and make it lose its effect.

Thats bullshit man. You didn't hear it was her ex-FIANCE? Shit, don't tell me if you love someone and you are together that you wouldn't take photo's videos etc? I mean sure it may have been a mistake in this case but how would she have known? When you love and trust someone its different.

 

I can say I didn't with my fiancé. Have no interest in doing now either. Not everyone is the same.

 

Well true, but if you HAD wanted to or if you did its all about trust. You trust the person you love not to do something like that too you. its not your fault if that person turns out to be a douche. I mean it would be the same as sharing intimate details about yourself. True, that person could go and tell your deepest darkest secrets, but does that mean you live only in your own head? If you love and trust them its a risk your willing to take.

 

It is not a risk I would be willing to take. While I may tell my partner my deepest fears or intimate details, a nude shot would not happen. They may decide to broadcast my vocal intimacies but that is far easier to deal with than to be confronted by strangers being able to access my nude pictures.

It is also who else is going to at any point be able to see those that is the issue. From family to future employers.

I agree with the sentiment that if you would not personally post a picture, video, then do not allow it to be taken.

 

Perhaps. Although some people do marry before they truly know each other, and some do that kind of thing after only a very short period of knowing one another. I for one, take a long time before I trust people with personal details etc. Also, we don't know why they broke up - what if the OP had done something to this guy and he feels it's revenge. Not saying that that would make it right, but you don't know what happens in others relationships. You hear about it all too often, where a relationship ends and the personal details are put on publicly. People often take risks too soon.

 

It was a mistake from the very beginning, to be in a relationship with this fellow; and it was even more of a mistake to let him takes nudes of you.

I can't believe for a second that you were even the least bit careful in your choice of mate.

 

That's terrible! Now, what website do I have to visit to see the pictures...?

LOL. Hope things work out and you learn a lesson.

 

you should never let your cooch and your face appear in the same picture