my first girlfriend

i've been with my first gf for about a year with a break in the middle, and we're just about to move in together

one concern is that after a while i might miss the whole sleeping with a guy thing. has anyone else been in the same situation and did they find it a problem? xx

 

Never have been in your situation, but it's always awesome to have someone to love. I guess you'll have to wait and see what the future has in store for you. Then you'll know the right thing to do. Just follow your heart. It knows best.

--QP

 

naww thanks hun, i think you're probably right. life's wonderful like this, surprising things happen and you can't really do much but get blown along in its wind

 

so you're bisexual?

 

You're not good at being gay if you have a girlfriend..

 

Hard to say for you since it's really different for each of us. For a period of time when I thought I was Bi or tried to be Bi, being with a woman was simply not enough...it didn't satisfy me and that created problems in my head and finally in the relationship. For me I needed and wanted to have the feel, smell and love of a man. Guess it really amounted to the fact that I was and was Gay, not Bi. I know a lot of guys who say it works well enough for them depending more on the person they are with rather than the gender of the person. With your youth and beauty you will have plenty of opportunity to experience both genders. Let yourself be loved and give as much love as you have to return. So many people need to be held and loved and you may have that gift to give much joy and comfort. Offer your smile to all and you will help many even with a single touch.

 

yup

 

maybe i need more practice then..no, but if you fancy guys then you get generally known as the gay guy

 

yeah i think it might be the case with me that it depends more on the person not the gender too. the last sentence of your post was beautiful btw x

 

You made me think of Rosie, my mum refers to her as my first girlfriend, I was like 3/4 years old

We moved away soon after that. Her dad worked with my dad, and Neither myself or my parents can remember her or her folks last name.

I'd love to track her down, we were like peas in a pod back then



Alexander; Dont listen to them, from both sides of the fence you'll get gay=sex=not interested in girls. Just cos the females dont get the blood rushing to your undies doesnt mean you cant have special bonds with them, play the spare dad, or overdose on the sweet (Just as long as they have another guy to grind on that is)


And especially dont listen to stuff like this:

The opposite is true, the majority get more experimental with age, and thats something neither side of the fence warns you about. Swingers clubs are the realm of 40 / 50 somethings, not 20 somethings

 

hehe i like cute little stories like that. thanks for the advice hun x

 

i really don't know, i would say if you're into someone then the rest doesn't matter but i'm not bi so it's not that simple.

 

Yes, I would prob miss it too much, so I don't really get involved with girls even tho I find them sexually attractive. D: