How do you stop thinking about a girl?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Wings of purity, Sep 11, 2010.

  1. Wings of purity

    Wings of purity Member

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    Hey everyone,

    I am troubled by this for a long time now...How can you get over a girl?I loved this person(Im a guy,shes a girl) and we kinda broke up, and now I cant find a way to take her off my mind.I cant stop trying to hook up with her again, and she couldnt care less about how much I want her

    Any ideas?
     
  2. PEACEFUL LIBRA

    PEACEFUL LIBRA DAMN RIGHT I'M A WEIRDO

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    find someone else to replace her
     
  3. deleted

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    store nuts somewhere else..
     
  4. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    woman are like buses there's always another one coming
     
  5. Wings of purity

    Wings of purity Member

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    Really?But what if its a girl that...Meant a lot to me?
     
  6. TheMistress

    TheMistress Senior Member

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    i can totally relate to this... my ex and i broke up in march and again in april and again in july. sometimes break ups take a long time. this one may be particularily difficult for you because you still want to try and she does not. you probably wont agree with me, but take this as a blessing. doing what i did is terrible... sometimes having a second chance is nice and sometimes not having one is a blessing in disguise. either way you see it, the bottom line is that break ups are tough. and your gonna think about this girl until eventually you start to think about her less and less and one day not at all.

    my advice to you is the same thing thats keeping me going at this time: remind yourself everyday of all the bad things about her and your relationship with her. sometimes you have to beat yourself up a bit to move on.

    goodluck friend-- one more thing-- i know its a tired old saying but: time really does heal all wounds.
     
  7. OzNorth

    OzNorth Member

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    Play Rugby
     
  8. daralicious

    daralicious Member

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    have meaningless sex,
     
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    with old men..
     
  10. lillallyloukins

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    it's hard, but just get on with your life... when she comes into your mind, try to focus on something else instead... good luck...
     
  11. alexander88

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    don't look at photos of her, don't wank thinking about her, don't look on her facebook etc, if you have any of her stuff hide it away, try meeting new girls too:) x
     
  12. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    be honest people....you cant stop thinking about someone you love until they become someone you dont love
     
  13. alexander88

    alexander88 Member

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    yeah but you can help that time to come along quicker:)
     
  14. Chapter13

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    pork someone else
     
  15. daralicious

    daralicious Member

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    older men are hott, especially when they have gray in their hair yummy yum
     
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  17. Captain Cannabis

    Captain Cannabis Banned

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    Hahahahahaha!!!
     
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    Captain Cannabis Banned

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  19. 6-eyed shaman

    6-eyed shaman Sock-eye salmon

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    You may never fully get over her until there's someone else who comes along who proves herself better than the previous girl in multiple ways.

    When I met my second girlfriend, she was better than the first one in every way imaginable. Yet when the previous one kept calling off and on, I would avoid her until I finally answered the phone and told her that she had been replaced by someone who was smarter, prettier, nicer, more courteous, more caring, was better in the sack, more appreciative, etc etc. I laid it on her pretty hard. The bitch deserved it for being a meth freak who stole money from me and my cell phone with vital contacts. I told this freak that once she is 44 years old and has gone through 3 marriages, she'd WISH she could have a man like me who was always there for her when she needed it most. She never called me again after that.

    Though you will eventually get over this break up. You will probably always remember her forever. And embrace every experience as a lesson.
     
  20. Wings of purity

    Wings of purity Member

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    Man I wanted to marry that woman for the period of time we were together
     

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