If a guy invites me

If a guy invites me to his house does that basically mean he just wants sex?

 

not necessarily, could be an axe murderer too

 

seriously

 

lol No. everyone is individual.

 

Noo, it means he and all his friends do.

 

When I invite a girl to my place, its usually to have sex

 

depends with how he said it, and what is the reason...

 

yes exactly his reason for inviting you to his house depends on his reason for inviting you to his house

but forreal dawg there are so many factors in this, if you want some "real" answers be more specific please.

 

yesss be specific!

 

Tends to be either that or they want you to clean their house.

 

yes its to have sex. i deffinitely dont invite them over to have a nice relaxed conversation.

 

If a guy invites me over to his house I always treat it as an invitation to just hang out. Thinking back to every guy I've dated, I can't ever recall having sex the first or even second or third time I went to his house. I also can't recall those guys even trying to have sex with me; they all seemed content just to hang out.

I remember one guy in particular..we went to his house and ended up playing guitar hero and talking and joking all night. at 5 in the morning he started telling me how cool I was that I could just hang out.

I think it depends on the girl. If a guy only sees you as a casual sex partner, then thats his intention. But if the guy is truly interested in the girl maybe he simply wants her to come over to hang out in his comfort zone. Thats my theory..I just might have a really naive view of the male psyche.

 

this is how it is. it all has to do with respect for the woman really.

 

It depends on the situation. I would say if you don't know the guy well and don't intend to have sex, don't go. If it is his assumption that you are consenting to sex by going to his house, he may try to pressure you or be a date rapist.

If it's someone that you know well or there will be other people there that you know and trust, then it's not necessarily a sexual advance.

If you can't figure out what his true intentions are and you don't want to have sex with him, probably best to wait until you really have a strong sense of his intentions.

 

NO!!!!! lol I don't know the guy or know how well you know him or know how you met. but it means he wants to hangout with you at his house. watch a movie, socialize, bake stuff together, whatever you can do at a house. now like I said I don't know him but he possibly could try to get romantic with you. if he does you either want it or you don't. if you don't just straight up tell him I just came here to hang out with you and be friends and not for some romantic encounter. Or if you dating him just tell him your not ready to take it that far yet. o and if he tries to pressure you to do something you don't wanna do just leave right away. cus you already told him NO and now he keeps bugging you so just leave right away and tell him that was very rude.

 

Yes and to clean and cook in the ktichen, where women belong!

 

and i was just kidding about that btw, just in case anyone takes me seriously lol!

 

I don't know the guy well and I met him from a school party I don't intend to have sex. When he invites me I said yes , and now I regreted that I say yes. Now how can tell him that I don't want to go to his house ? Do think if I go there and if he tries to have sex with me and I tell him that I'm not ready to take it that far yet. What are you guys think??

 

just tell him you have to cancel that night... and suggest meeting up another day in a public place

 

I think that you need to learn about assertiveness here. You have a right to express what you think and feel. I think it is a mistake to think that you have an obligation to go to his place, since you said yes earlier. If he is not totally accepting of the fact that you changed your mind, it is a very bad sign. I don't think you should be in the company of a guy that you don't feel comfortable saying "no" to, whether he is trying to pressure you or not.

If you tell him "I changed my mind, I don't feel like going over to your place", he may ask why. If you then say "I just don't feel like it", he should accept that. If he starts putting pressure on you, then yes, he probably is just trying to get sex out of you.

If you just met him at a party and he is already inviting you to his house, there is a good chance that he's looking for sex. If you have an uneasy feeling about this guy, I would say go with your feeling. Your intuition can tell you things that your mind can't. I'm not saying that intuition is always 100% correct, but it tends to keep you safe.

You don't need a reason or an excuse to not go to this guy's house. You have no obligation to explain yourself. If he calls and won't take no for an answer, I would say just hang up on him.

You don't say how old you are, but I'm guessing you are in high school? An alternative would be to invite him to your home instead while your parents are there. Stay in a common area and maybe watch a movie or something.

But if you are getting a bad feeling from this guy, spare yourself some agony and just get rid of him.