hello i`m kinda new to anal and i was wondering a few thing about it how would you be able to do anal with out it hurting i only done it with toys and other thing
it takes a little while to get used to having anal so if you are new to it i guess you will need to take it slowly at first (untill the muscles in ur ass relax properly and it becomes easy to move ur toy in and out). lots of lube is always good. depending on what lube i use i often find (when im warming up) that i have to lube up my dildo and slide it in and out a few times and then relube it before i start to really open up and get down to busniess. also are you male or female? just wondered because if you are male i could maybe give you some advice on techniques and such hope this helps
squirt a bottle of ''baby orajel''up her/your ass and wait 5 minutes till its frozen... also works on passed out wives
I've always found that the position is of primary importance here, and rather than the traditional 'Doggy' style, the Missionary position makes for a far easier & less painful penetration.
I'm not doubting that experience, however my ex insisted that doggy hurt least and was most enjoyable, and I'm on the large side. She tried it mish and cowgirl and didn't like them at all. And she used to slam herself back at me (anal doggy) so hard I was afraid she'd rip in two. I guess it shows that we're all different, and what works for one may not work for others.
I did my wife anal 3 times, twice we were just dating and once while married. She teared up twice and she said it hurt brfore, during and after. She said she wouldnt do it again after we got marrried but she got wasted and I took advantage of it and she cried because it hurt putting it in, but the anus does expand once you get so far up
If you learned how to do anal right instead of just sticking it up your poor wife's ass and making her cry you would have been in her ass countless times. I think that most men just don't understand this, if it feels good, she probably let you do it again. But if you act like a retarded 400 lb. gorilla selfishly looking out only for your pleasure there a good chance you are not going to get much anal. You are a shining example of this. I've been with girls just like your wife, that has some guy ream their ass painfully and then they ran around and told every girl they know anal hurts and don't try it. It was so much harder for them to feel safe and confident enough that I wouldn't hurt them to try it again. And I was able to get almost all of them not only to try it again with me, but to actually ENJOY it! It's because of guys like you, that anal is such a rarity in this world. I hope one day someone rams their cock up your ass so you can see how it feels. What goes around comes around, Ace
with an actual dick its a progression. have him start with one finger getting you used to tht slowly...build your way up, even if its the same night. lube helps, and he can't just shove his dick in you, with anal it sometimes takes a while. he may have to to "just the tip" ( ) and then pull out and go in a little further next time...etc. when he's getting close to getting in i find it easier if i push my muscles (kind of like i would to take a shit) and it may be a little uncomfortable, but ive found it helps, and eventually you will be melting from all the pleasure. ive only done it in doggy style so far, i need to experiment more positions...gotta not be single for this to happen though unfortunately...thank god for toys
There are PLENTY of women interested in anal but they are scared. They mainly think it will hurt and or it may be smelly or messy. Education is the best thing you need for successful anal and there are plenty of posts by experienced anal practitioners that can help foster this situation. We have to respect though that some women may never be interested in anal, and that's okay. Here are a few tips: First she needs to be clean either by have a bm and shower prior to sex or an enema. As good vibes said getting to full penile penetration is a progression. Here is a secret. The key that opens the backdoor is the tongue. It may sound gross but as long as your lady has had a good shower it's not going to smell or taste bad. I have never gotten sick and I have eaten my wife's ass tons of times. The tongue is soft, warm, wet and non-threatening with no chance of pain or injury. Make sure and start with what she is familiar, her vagina, and then work your way up to her ass. Then you can move to fingers or small butt plugs. Butt plugs are a great toy you can slip in her ass to help to relax and dilate the secondary internal sphincter. It's the inner sphincter that causes anal to be painful because that muscle is involuntary. You NEED to relax that muscle or your woman's ass is in for a world of hurt. Remember to use LOTS of lube. Cut your nails AND file them, there is nothing like sharp freshly cut un-filed nails to give your lady a fissure. The last step is actual penile penetration. As goodvibes said make sure you have your woman bear down with her anus like she's trying to have a BM or pass gas. This may seem contradictory but it consciously dilates the anus to allow MUCH easier penetration. Lastly make sure she is in control. A good way to do this is to have her on top that way she can control the speed and depth of penetration. If you are driving make sure and LISTEN to her if she sounds like she's in pain (i.e. crying) or she say stop, for fuck sake STOP!!!!!!!!! It's her ass NOT yours, respect her body. Any man who is willing to fuck their girl up the ass while they are crying is a complete monster, this is borderline rape. Lastly NEVER sneak attack a girl with anal (whether she's drunk or not), be it fingers or your penis, let her know what's going on and ask her if she's okay with it because after all it's her ass. If you follow these guidelines you will be getting A LOT more anal!
well i done it a few time but only with my dildo and had no problem puting it in but when i tryed a cock it did hurt so im not to sure what would be the best pos so it wouldnt hurt that much
My 2 cents: - Get really really turned on - Use lots of lube (not the kind that numbs your skin and water-based lube for latex condom) - Take your daily dump beforehand (tip from a gay bottom for pain relief) - Use your dildo to open it up, take it out, ease the lubed real thing in before it closes up
