Just a quick noobie question, what is the definition of a good kisser? Like what makes you a good kisser?
Well, I'm a good kisser because I'm special and was born a lover. But as for the rest of folks, here's a good guide; 1) Don't slober 2) Don't try to eat her face 3) Don't try to taste her esophagus 4) Brush your teeth first 5) Subtly can be very good (same deal when you're playing with her twat) 6) Don't hit her teeth with your teeth 7) Don't always choke her with your tongue 8) Touch her ass while you kiss her 9) Watch the way waves move then try to mimick that with your tongue. Then kiss her that way 10) Pull her in close but don't break her back. But definately let her know you want her close
advice from a guy on kissing girls, though im sure all this applies to any permutation of partners be present let go don't hold back don't be afraid or shy take your time explore focus on your partner listen/read your partner's signs kiss the way you'd wanna be kissed in their shoes use your hands, pull her close carress her face, run your fingers through her hair, down her neck slowly, around her shoulders, pull her close wrap your arms around her, give yourself to the moment kiss her lips, her tongue, lick her lips, her tongue, kiss/lick her cheeks, her neck . . . don't just shove your tongue in her mouth and make it dance, thats fine for a bit but not the whole show put your lips on hers, your face on hers, but don't kiss, just keep it there, close . . . pull away, kiss, tease tease kiss her with your soul
Lol the best way to kiss without having to be embarrassed about your lack of kissing experience is to kiss someone equally inexperienced. My first boyfriend had more experience kissing than I and I had no idea how horrible he was at it because he was the first one I had kissed. Then I dumped his ass (again, not cause he was a bad kisser, because I was bored) and found someone who showed me the way it should be done. Thinking back, I am rather embarrassed about how horrible at it I was at that time, but he trained me. If you are with someone you can really trust, then they won't be afraid to give you little hints (both verbally and physically) that will help you figure it out. If a guy dumps you because of this he wasn't worth your time anyway. Good kissing can be learned I think.
Ive only kissed one bad kisser... It was, such a turn off, she would just stick her tongue as far in my mouth as she could and flick it around real fast.. she alwas wanted to flick tongues.. I think that was because she got really horny or something.. but still it sucked.
tease tease tease! be passionate. lick his or her lips gently with the tip of your tongue, hold each other close and stroke their hair, suck on the lower lip lightly, etc. i was with a guy who told me i was a bad kisser but thats because i had only kissed...like, twice before him. from kissing him i realize he was bad at it too when i think back on it. my next boyfriend was a quiet guy so he never said much but we kissed and fucked a lot. lol i learned and now my current man says im an amazing kisser. It's all about experience and willingness to learn and enjoy.
A good kiss is one that has genuine passion, caring, softness...any wonderful feeling put into it. A good kiss isn't one that's thought abut. You don't really think about HOW to do it right, because then you're analysing it and such when really it just needs to flow. Just do what comes naturally and you'll get better with time as it just becomes automatic. Don't expect to be great at first, but certainly don't try too hard.
