F Buddies?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by RedCherry, Apr 18, 2010.

  1. Masheakh

    Masheakh Member

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    I used to have one. I need a new one. He was better looking, better endowed and better built that I couldn't really climax.
     
  2. Alva

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    I have one.. I think.
    Its stupid though because I still like him a lot we used to go out, and I want more but at the same time I know its a bad idea and so I just end up feeling bad after and I don't hear from him for awhile and that makes me feel worse and he's not actually doing anything wrong and I know he doesn't like me.. oh well *rambling*
     
  3. DaneCurley

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    2 people comfortable with talking about sex walk into a bar...
     
  4. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    epic
     
  5. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    lol
     
  6. Jedite83

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    I have had a few (2 I think) but I only hooked up a few times with each of them.
     
  7. scottwilliamsonoc

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    I had a couple during college.. okay. Once emotions get involved, quit!
     
  8. daralicious

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    I have one now hes my ex boss, its perfect whenever i feel i want someone he comes over or i go to him, and the best part he cuddles and kisses alot afterwards, im in heaven
     
  9. Frivolity

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    Am I the only one who prefers to love in the "spirit" world rather than "fuck"?
    I've had all kinds of great sex but nothing compares to being lit on fire spiritually
    by a loving being. Sex is just so bland after that...guess I'm ruined.
     
  10. TheWhiteOne216

    TheWhiteOne216 Member

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    na man a lot of people still look for that deeper connection but if you click physically why not enjoy it and get down.
     
  11. AznMom

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    I'm married but i would love to find a fuck buddy. But in my case another girl as my husband would never allow me to have another guy.
     
  12. The Earth

    The Earth Om Tare Tutare Ture Svaha

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    me too, best friend we can talk about anything.. and she cums like a champion
     
  13. SunshineSteve

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    Hell yeah, she's coming over tonight, haven't seen her in over a month...

    Fuck buddies, friends with benefits, casual relationships, whatever you want to call it. Each relationship is different. Different rules, different expectations, different dynamics. Like, I'm looking for a girl I can dominate and throw around the bedroom, cum inside, and also be extraordinarily affectionate with. How often we meet, how much we enjoy talking to each other, what we do together, it all varies. I do like to hear about the other men she's fucking, how many, who else she's letting cum inside her, etc. Just so I know what sexual health risks I'm facing, and exposing my other partners to. And because it turns me on :p. When I'm single I like to have 3-5 girls like this at a time, and I'll prefer to see each of them as often as possible, every couple weeks at least, a couple times a week, preferably. Right now I'm down to just two, been dumped a couple times this past month, and had one girl fade for like 6 weeks (lost my job, can't afford to go out at all, it fucks with my levels of fun and self-confidence). Another girl's been out of town for a long while, and I'm hoping to rekindle things there. If I've got a girlfriend, I won't dump any of my other girls, but frequency will drop off, and I usually won't bother having more than 2-3 girls on the side, as girls fade out. Takes a bit of relationship maintenance for each girl, after all, and there's a bit of a half-life to these things, or else girls won't call you for a couple months while they obsess over some new guy, then come calling back. But hey, there's always sex parties and hookups and such too.

    Christ, I love my fucking life. Would definitely like a steady girlfriend again sometime soon, though I don't know how into it I am with anyone I'm currently dating.

    If you want primarily sexual relationships, you just gotta talk about sex, find girls who have similar interests, and go for it. If you don't feel a huge connection, like it's not totally fucking awesome hanging out with them, it's no big thing, no reason you can't fuck them, and appreciate them and their company, treat them with respect. Lot of girls it's only a mild attraction, but so what? Have fun, don't fuckin stress. :cool:
     
  14. SunshineSteve

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    Also, you can totally have spiritual sex with someone you're in a casual relationship with. Tantra doesn't care if you're committed unless you do... I find it's a pretty great trust-building exercise, makes you both feel great about yourselves, doesn't necessarily lead to heartache, or not in my experience.

    But then, as an avowed sex freak who's ridiculously open about shit, I think it might be easier for me to avoid jealous bullshit than it is for a lot of people. Knowing where you stand helps with that immensely. I don't play games with people's emotions, and I'll tell you what's up. Helps, really.
     

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