Why do men do anal masturbation

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  1. mrwankalot3

    mrwankalot3 Member

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    yes anal masturbation makes me want be fucked by a real dick.
    i discovered anal masturbation a few years ago. i originally tried it because i had accidentally downloaded a gay porn video. when i realised this video was a gay one my first thought was to delete it but then i stopped and thought. i had never really thought about what gay sex involved and how good it felt. so anyway i watched the video. i wasnt really turned on by it but it got me thinking that surely anal would be pleasurable regardless of wether the person recieving was gay or not. so i tried it and have been doing it ever since. however i have found from experience that the most pleasurable things to use are those that are dick shaped, also i find it much more enjoyable if i can just lay back and relax (something that i cannot do when simple masturbating as i have to either lay back and thrust with 1 hand or physically bounce my body up and down.

    so yer it feels good and it has made me want to be fucked by a dude but it hasnt made me gay. i do it simple because it feels good and if i need another man to fuck me so i can get maximum pleasure then thats fine with me
     
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  2. markatipr

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    nithing gay about it the orgasm you get from plugging a nice big fat dildo upyour ass man i'm able to hit my mouth with everY load that way and have the wife watching while im fucking my ass and swallowing my load dame getting hard just writing this sorrY gotta go feel a load coming and dont want to waste a good mouth full or ass full at that
     
  3. flasexwriter

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    Because it feels wonderful.
     
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  4. Comic85

    Comic85 Senior Member

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    Because you have amazing orgasms and cum hard and everywhere!
     
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  5. Goander

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    You've obviously never had a prostate orgasm. you are really missing out. It has nothing to do with being gay or not.
     
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  6. MartNorth

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    Finest thing about using a Venus 2000, just sit back and enjoy.
     
  7. Sparky Paul

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    Anal stimulation is very much a turn on and it feels good. I use my Aneros devices to achieve prostate orgasms as well as a way to intensify my stroking orgasms. I have also purchased the nJoy Pure Wand and it allows me to concentrate the stimulation of my prostate. The initial stimulation and subsequent orgasms are incredible and can be frequent. It is a pricey toy but, well worth it. Never had any desire to be with a man.
     
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  8. Jcinalco

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    It feels good, very good!
     
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  9. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    A hard cock that hits the spot is best imho but the Aoneris or similar generic prostate toy is super too!

    Simon :)
     
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  10. Slacker Of Krypton

    Slacker Of Krypton Senior Member

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    I like to do this occasionally. As others have said it hits the prostate just right and the sensations can be terrific.
    Every once in a while I cum that way and it can be explosive, more pressure and cum but getting to orgasm that way takes time and patience.
    Mostly it feels good, and my prostate gets a good milking or I finish off masturbating the old fashion way.
     
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  11. biboroguy12

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    Because I have always liked the feel of something in my ass. The bigger the better. Started in my pre teens. A lot of men do it for the lack of a willing partner to fuck them. As a versatile but more of a bottom, I can say from experience that there a lot more bottoms than tops. And most of the men I have been with are on the small side dick wise so using large dildos fulfills the need. And besides, you can get it whenever you want it.
     
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  12. Lookin4fun60148

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    Cuz it feels AMAZING.
     
  13. Peter_Goesinya

    Peter_Goesinya Newbie

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    I do it because it feels good, it’s only been with butt plugs or dildos….I have amazing orgasms from it while I’m masturbating
     
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  14. DaveTheBiGuy

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    Why do men anally masturbate?
    Because it feels AMAZING! That's why.
    I've always enjoyed having my ass played with, so why wouldn't I anally masturbate? Yes, I'm bisexual, but if it came down to it, I'd rather have another guy's fingers or cock in my ass rather than my own fingers or a dildo
     
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  15. Uhardrodnme

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    Yes, anal self-fucking is very pleasurable, but it's a pale imitation of the real thing being driven in & out by the hot, hard desire of the man behind you ...!
     
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  16. DaveTheBiGuy

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    I agree, especially if there's an emotional/intimate connection with that other guy, such as kissing, making out, hugging, cuddling.
    I've only had that with one other guy before, but it was wonderful.
    I realize most bi guys (I'm a total bottom) just want the sex and nothing else, but I for one, don't mind the emotional/intimate connection with the right man.
     
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  17. Uhardrodnme

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    When I first discovered other men (in my early forties), I hooked up with a guy about my same age who was much more experienced than I. By then, I had fully embraced my feelings for men (as a total bottom), and had developed an urgent, insatiable craving for anything & everything two men can do to, for and with each other in bed, from my soft, passive, receiving perspective ...

    He took me to his bed, looked down into my eyes, and began to kiss me .... long, deep & luxuriously. It was one of the most sensuous, erotics experiences of my life -- when I realized that he was making love to my mouth with his (his lips & tongue & teeth gently entwined with mine, swirling & swishing so very slowly everywhere in there, drinking me in so very completely), I opened my mouth as wide as I could, inviting him in even deeper, and oh, did he accept my invitation!

    I started to whimper as he violated my openess in that way, and I felt his love for me so deeply; I wrapped myself all around him, offering & giving & lifting myself up to him until there was nothing left to give, and he just kept eating and drinking me. It was too intense, and I began to cry, sobbing softly into his very ardent but very tender, loving assault upon & into me, and when he reached up & began to caress my cheek, in desperation I reached down to wrap my fingers around my aching, impossibly hard erection.
    But he caught my hand and stopped it, and placed his own flat down upon my rising & falling mound, heel against the base of my stiffly jutting cock, and began to undulate it ever so gently as he resumed his assault upon my senses with his amorous kissing ...

    I was toatally overwhelmed with emotion for him, and began to cry, unashamed, into his hungry mouth and his tongue's probing, plundering desire to reach in & take possession of my very soul -- which I wanted at this point even more desperately than he did ...

    And then suddenly I felt, way down deep inside my undulating body, something I'd never felt before, like a warm, melting sensation rising up from deep within; I felt a strong need to cry, to weep, to wail, but I couldn't with him so deep in my mouth, but when I felt him start to withdraw a litlle so that I could, I paniced -- I could not bear the thought of him abandoning me when my need for him to stay with & help me make it through what was happening to me was so string, so desperate, and clung to him and opened even wider for him and began to really sob out loud into his mouth as the molten lava began to rise up from oh, so very deep within me, so hot it felt as though it were scalding the insides of the head of my dick as it poured out all over me and his hand .... my first-ever hands-free spontaneous ejaculation ..!

    One of if not the most intense, earth-shattering emotional connections I've ever felt with another human being ...

    He went on to fuck me & fill me with his warm, creamy cum no less than three times that afternonn, all three with the same tender-loving-care of that incredible kissing that had started our time together ...
     
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  18. DaveTheBiGuy

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    WOW! With that much descriptive detail of how passionate/emotional/intimate you enjoy being with another man, it sounds almost as if you lean more towards the gay side of the spectrum (I know you said you're a bi total bottom), and there's nothing wrong with that.
    I too, am a total bottom (bi, and married to a woman), and can really enjoy a passionate/intimate connection (kissing, making out, hugging, cuddling) with another guy, but he'd have to be someone really special to me.
    One of the hottest, most erotic things I've ever done is showering with another guy. To soap each other up while kissing and groping each other was like pure bliss to me
     
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  19. Uhardrodnme

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    Never had a chance to do anything like! One of my strongest desires was to be able to spend a night in bed with my lover-man, but my circumstances never allowed that.

    The guy who aroused all that emotion in me was a total stranger -- it was his obvious feelings for me that ignited & inspired my reaction to him; he was holding nothing back in his beautiful love-making, and so I felt totally safe -- yes, eager! -- to give him my deepest inner reaches in return. I said that he fucked me three times after that, but all the time he was fucking me, he was making such sweet man-to-man love to me, looking so deep unto my soul (the soul that I was joyously surrendering up to him!), caring for me ...

    Thank you appreciating my feelings as I described them -- feels so good now that someone -- you! -- understands how I felt when I was in his arms that day...
     
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  20. Uhardrodnme

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    Oh, and it matters not at all to me what terminology may or may not apply or be applied, lol! I am who & what I am ..!
     
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