Sex without Condoms

Your girlfriend is married!?! And you fool around with her wife?!?

You, sir, are both brave and lucky.

 

I really hate to say this and I played Russian roulette with a fully loaded AK47, but of all the times I had sex, since 17 and with 11 girls until now, I wore a condom only once.

So, 99.99999% of the times I had sex, I never wore one. I am not a role model for safe sex by far.

 

i wont do it again. thats how i ended up with my last daughter.

 

often in my younger days long before I learned the value of seeing the Other for their inner-subjectivity. At the time I just wanted to cum in women--what an ass I was. The real shame is that the culture in which I grew up only found the value of a woman based on what was between her legs--how twisted is that? I spend everyday now living life in a much different space, a space of equality and existential understanding of the freedom of the other.

 

I'm the worst sort for you to fuck if you're pathologically obsessed with sexual health: a free love sex freak with a really strong creampie fetish. I'd actually much rather just fool around than wear a condom. I know it's a little dangerous, and for sure I do take chances, and I definitely sleep around quite a bit. Is it safe? No, but to be honest, I didn't pick my sexual preferences, and I'm gonna indulge them until I die or get something bad, if that ever happens. Statistically, I know I will eventually have herpes, though I've been super lucky so far (had a tiny little white wart for a couple months right after I started having sex, not one infection of any kind since then). Just so long as I don't pick up hepatitis C or hiv, I don't mind getting herpes at all, though hopefully it's later than sooner. It's totally fucking worth it. And if I gotta take valtrex in the future and tell my new partners about their realistic chances for getting herpes from me, that's what I'll do. And yeah, probably half my new girls from then on will insist on condoms or not at all. But as it is I'm way over 95% bareback, and I'm fucking three girls right now who all have other boyfriends. Yyyyup. I'm a dirty fucking dog.

Still clean bill of health, though. I get checked a couple times a year, or more if I'm on a real streak, fucking girls who have anonymous unprotected sex or whatever (gotta say, I do love a real cum slut). I also have talks about sexual health before new partners, and I'm clear about what the score is for me, try to be somewhat responsible about my irresponsibility. But there's no way I'm ever gonna be a heavy condom user, unless I get something bad.

To be honest, with the number of girls I've had, and the number of guys they've had, and me still being clean, the case for condom use has got to be more than a bit inflated, at least half propaganda. Not saying it's totally unneeded, but the odds are just not that high I'll ever get something bad. It's like a sort of extreme sport, always with that low-level risk of a career-ending injury or even death each time you go out, which just makes it all the more exciting.

Gotta say, I fuckin love to watch a girl of mine take on a group of guys, letting them come inside her pussy and ass. That's fuckin hot. But that's me.

And frankly, more of you are willing to let me fuck you bareback than you're likely to admit to yourself. Most of you ladies would probably let me, in the heat of the moment, and once we've done it bareback that first time, you're gonna let me every time. Only a few of you would actually be turned off enough to say no, judging from my experience. I also really like girls who aren't really comfortable with the idea. Makes me feel a lot more secure about not picking something up from you.

Anyway, sorry if I'm squicking some of you out, but I'm really not the sort to hide my sexuality, lie, or any of that. Honesty's a big part of my charm, you know.

 

Made my ex and my wife pregnant first fuck. My wife had 4 obortions before she met me with 4 different guys so obviously she never worried about condoms. All the guys pushed her to do it and told her to abort. I could never do that so we have a lovely son. But we've had a lot if close calls since, we have fun with my best friend and there are always slip ups. He's pretty premature with here. Many morning after pills.

 

A 10 year old thread revitalized. I don't use them always. I leave the choice up to my partner. If it is the first time we will hook up it is usually with a condom worn. My first time inside a woman I wore a condom. It didn't fit and after a while she had me to remove it. What a difference the feeling was. But it wasn't the fault of the condom but the user who had no idea on how to get the correct size and type. In ten years medicine has advanced quite a bit as now there is prevention and cures available for a lot of STD's. The talk in this thread has been more about STD risk than pregnancy. It's interesting that the odds of getting an infection are remarkably lower than her becoming pregnant going bareback for intercourse. While I don't condone or champion the use of condoms it is a proven fact disease and pregnancy are best prevented by using them. Plus the technology in condom development has progressed a lot. They come in multiple sizes and thickness and when worn properly I really can't tell the difference. Probably because I did my research and found a size and type that fits and feels like it is not there. With the multiple partners that I have condoms are used more often than not for intercourse.

 

I HATE condoms. The only time I've used them full time was with my first GF in college. Both virgins. After a night where the condom broke we said "fuck it" and I just pulled out or we did anal.
Later, and I was still dumb and full of cum, I had a couple of one nighters. Both said they were on the pill so what the hell. Happy I haven't had a knock on the door...."Daddy?" Also had a FWB between relationships that we used condoms. After a few times I also had the condom break. She came, I came, and when I pulled out we had that OH SHIT moment. Just threw them away and I started pulling out.
With my live in GF, my ex wife and current wife we never used condoms from day one. First date with my current wife we were into it hot and heavy, but I tried being somewhat of a gentleman and didn't plan on having actual sex. Naked and rolling around on the couch, and she says "I need you in me". She came a couple of times, and I let her know I was close. "I'm on the pill......cum in me!" We came together......probably the best sex of my life. 23 years later and we've never used those pesky rubbers.

 

Here's a fact for the younger readers among us. In the 1970s and early 1980s, before the AIDS thing started getting among heterosexuals, but the pill was widely available, many, many women, (who are now in their mid 50s and 60s, know any of those?) used to walk around daily with their uterus and belly with sperm swimming around in them. Yep. Fact. Sperm live three days. Will they admit it? Never.

 

This woman I met in a motel room, we were friends with benefits for a few years.
After having lunch together or you went to that motel room and while talking we were also getting ready for fun. She was looking forward very much because she knew I have a thicker one.

we talked about using condoms but I was surprised when she started things off giving me oral without a condom.

then she took one out and put it on me, and straddled me. Everything was great, but she was making a bit of a face.
We already talked about things online but she asked if I was clean for sure. After I said I was she said that she got checked as well.

she pulled the condom off and threw it away, and slid herself onto my cock again.
That was the first time in my life having a woman ride me felt so good physically and visually. Also it was the first time I experienced a woman orgasming from my cock, and that I felt someone get wetter inside

 

Haven't used a condom since 2003