Hi, I just registered here because I've been trying to find people I can talk to about a sensitive issue. I'm 22 right now and have been into anal since age 15. I don't do it often but when I do it's usually amazing. I'm a guy by the way. It seriously blows my mind every time I do it, it's just that good. Well, recently I did it while I was really high. This is embarrassing so please be considerate as you read this. I used an object that had the same length and width of a dick and felt really good. There was a bit of pain while doing it but nothing that I felt was too much. I used plenty of lubrication, however it was body lotion and (more embarrassing details) canola cooking oil. When I finished everything seemed fine. The day after, after a night of sleep, when I had a bowel movement it was sooo bloody. I'm talking - toilet filled with blood dark deep red and with lots of what looked like congealed blood in it. This may have been the canola oil (?) that had dried far 'up there' and was now coming out. Well, needless to say, this scared the shit out of me. Fearing the worst, I thought I'd fucked myself too hard lol and busted something inside myself, like my colon, that was now leaking blood. I had heard about anal fissures being one risk of anal but the amount of blood I had seemed beyond a few cuts inside. This continued for about two or three more trips to the toilet. Not all were regular bowel movements. Most were this feeling like diarrhea, feeling that and knowing you have to go quickly, and blood would squirt out. It finally slowed down after another day and as of today there seemed to be perhaps only a slight trace of blood on the poop, and none while wiping (there seems to either be fissures inside or a cut on the hole skin outside that caused the bleeding, I'm really not sure which it is, if not both). So I'm feeling reassured that, at least, I'm not leading to a slow painful death by orgasmic ass fucking, but I'm still worried about it. Will I ever be able to have anal again? Will these wounds heal entirely or remain and open up whenever aggravated? How long do you think I should wait before trying again? It would be quite upsetting in a way if I could never do it again because, really, the pleasure is just so much better than anything else I've experienced sexually. I need it. One last question: at the moment I cannot afford a new toy, as the last three I bought were always too big and I had to throw them out - they were useless to me. So I'm stuck "being creative" and finding safe ways to still do it. Am I right in thinking that, as long as whatever it is is smooth, without anything to cut oneself on, is clean etc... then it is ok to use? I ask this specifically because I found a rake that has an end almost exactly like a penis, lol - it has a black rubber/plastic handle about 7inches over the wood, and the width of it is just a bit smaller than an average penis. I was thinking about cutting it off the end of the rake and using that. It is completely smooth and seems like it could be good. What do you think? Thanks for any replies.
Oops, I should mention that the object I used had a slight gap between one part and the other. This is what caused the pain here and there, as it must have been slightly abrasive against the skin and such. It wasn't pain due to size or anything or lack of lube (which I know can be painful - seems to me the people who find anal painful don't use enough lube and don't go slowly enough at first).
Yes but is it safe? Is there anything significantly different in real sex toys compared to ordinary phallic shaped objects one might use for anal? I'm just worried and extra concerned now after this unfortunate incident. It scared me so much, having never bled from my ass so much before from anything, and yet I don't want to just quit forever!
Before I invested in a real Butt Plug, I found standard candles perfectly satisfactory. As well as being the right sort of size & shape, they have the added advantage of softening slightly with body heat to adjust to your natural contours. As for bleeding - the anal cell membrane is extremely thin is easily prone to damage - even by some items in your diet, but accordingly it is also very fast to heal. Another possible cause is basic haemarhoids, which can occur at all ages. It is through the common bleeding that is the real danger in the passing of AIDS, as this is passed through bodily fluids into the slightest scratch, hence the importance of using a condom.
The AIDS thing only concerns couples right? I mean, one can't give oneself AIDS, right? I just made a new toy from the end of a rake. It has a black rubber covering about 6-7 inches down so I chopped it off the rake, and wrapped some socks around the base of it. Seems promising. I'm just unsure of when I cane safely use it without causing any more problems. Got any ideas on that? There has not been any more blood either in stool or while wiping, yet there is a sore spot, maybe a hemorrhoid. Is it still possible to do it safely without aggravating that?
Another possibility is something I had recently, and that is a sebaceous cyst around the perineum which, when it comes to a head eventually bursts, releasing all sorts of gunk & blood, thus relieving the pressure & easing the pain. It's naturally a bit tender for a short while afterwards while it heals but not a big deal. Haemorrhoids can form inside or outside the anus. Sometimes they can bleed - sometimes not. They can also tend to get inflamed from bouts of diarrhoea, or from the pressure of constipation. In fact, all they are are a form of varicose veins. Whilst unlikely to cause any real harm, if you are suffering from these, then anal masturbation is hardly likely to benefit the healing process.
Hey Poopin; Anal as it is thought of in these threads is usually between two people. Masturbation (or Anal Masturbation) might better describe your practice. Nevertheless, are you a virgin as to sex of any kind with another person? And if so - at 22, why? Don't tell us, answer to yourself. Don't get hung up on self pleasure too much. There is a whole world of delight waiting for you in sharing your body with another. Meanwhile, you have injured yourself and should seek medical advice from a doctor. I know you'll feel terribly embarrased, but you will be amazed at how professionally you'll be treated. If the secretary asks, just say ,"bleeding from the anus." That will suffice. Another option might be a sex therapist, who can give you good advice and refer you to a doctor - saving you the embarrassment of explaining again what's wrong. Eithe way,please get some help and advice. You may have a serious injury, which, without treatment, will haunt you for years. A perferated colon is the beginnig of several diseases, none of which are the least bit fun. You are 22, old enough to ask for help when you need it. You practiced on us, now get some real help! Good luck...
