I'm a 21 year old lesbian who grew up in a small town. Nobody I went to school with was gay. I didn't know a single lesbian. In order to meet other women, I got a job at the legal drinking age here (19) at the closest cities only gay club. I found very few people at the club to be someone I'd consider dating. And the ones I did like ended up having girlfriends already. Now (2 years later) I have found an amazing, unattached woman. The thing I'm worried about is my lack of experience. She's 7 years older than I, and I'm sure knows a heck of a lot more than I do. I'm not sure I can please her and this scares me. So do I tell her my fears? I once told a lesbian that I'm very nervous to be with a woman for the first time. She couldn't understand why and assumed I'm probably not gay after all (she's wrong, I'm gay...super gay ; ))
Communication is really important. I was in the same boat, and she turned out to be someone I very, very much love. My lack of experience was of very little importance, because our relationship was so much bigger than what I had or hadn't done in the past. Plus, if you leave lines of communication open, anything you're not GREAT at can be easily remedied. Lastly, everyone's different, so even if you were experienced with one woman, it doesn't mean you would know how to please every woman. Open communication with your current partner is most important. Best of luck!
One can be just as nervous being with a man for the first time. I do agree with Bocks, you just need to be open with each other. Everyone is different anyway, so you will soon find the best way of being together!
Sort of hapend 2 me and i told them i wasnt sure if i cud please them and they sed, its ok i no it wil feel gud if its u touchin me and it made me feel gud and it was great lol
