need some vibes/hugs

Need serious hugs and good vibes. My husband is in the military, and he has been treated so badly more than normal, and he joined the military when he was 18 not knowing what he was getting into. Well now they may be kicking us out of housing, and docking his pay, and it was already lowered. IT is too low for rent. so homelessness here we come. so please pray for us. send good vibes. He has learned over the years how bad the military can be, and is against war. but he learned a little too late. and now they are screwing with us badly bc his higher ups do not like him. they are making our lives an living hell. ON top of health problems. we do not need this. SO PLease if you can spare an hug, or vibes, or prayers. I would seriously appreciate it.

 

sendin some good vibes your way :grouphug: .. hope things start to look up for you <3

 

Big hugs for you and your husband both. I hope things look up real soon.

 

good energy your way for sure...that's shitty...you're on my list

 

hugs psychedelicg1rl .

 

:grouphug: That really sucks-I hope things turn around

You two newlyweds need to stay strong for each other.

Sending positive vibes

 

(((( HUGS))))) to you and your hubby .Sending positive vibes your way

 

Hang in there!

:grouphug: + positive vibes, and a prayer!

 

**hugs and sends plenty of positive vibes and energy your way

 

*Hugs* Hope you guys end up okay. I'll be thinking of you.

 

Sending some love and hugs your way my friend!!

 

Many, many hugs your way. I'm sorry you are going through so much bull shit. Like Tupac said " Before things get better, they gonna get worse". Good karma will come your way. I will keep you in my thoughts and I am sending mucho positive vibes to you and your family.

 

On what disciplinary grounds?

You need to see the base commander, Chaplin, veteran affairs. Set up these appointments. You also need to find out the procedure for filing with
the Service Complaint Panel of the unit your husband is with.


Sending you energy and hope:grouphug:

 

sorry...I refuse to hug another mans wife :eggnog:

I hope things work out

 

:grouphug: It seems like you have been going through a lot, hang in there!
I dont know anything about the military but I would think there would be something you can do
Ill be sending positive vibes your way

 

i send you lots of good vibes and wish you both all the best:grouphug:
i hope everything gets better soon,for the both of you

 

I'll keep you both in my prayers.

I'm a former marine (in another life and century). I went from station Marine of the Month to being on the commands shit list, so I know that drill.

They can't just dock pay or boot you out of housing on a whim. Their reasons may be BS, but they do have to abide by regulations. And these things can be appealed up the chain of command.

Did your husband go through some kind of NJP? No details necessary, but that's usually how they take pay, unless they've decided y'all were getting pay you shouldn't have.

Right now, at least here in Dallas, it's kind of a big deal about how badly the families of the service people in Iraq are doing. Some have not handled their finances so well while their spouse was in-country in Iraq ... and now people are willing to help. Talk to local radio stations, TV stations, churches, charities, etc. People are out there that will give you assistance.

Don't give up. We're all in this together, you aren't alone.

 

thanks you guys and gals. coming on here, and seeing all the comments, really did brighten my spirits. my husband is filing an complaint with the inspector general, bc he already did with his command, and they did nothing. so now onto higher grounds. I was just informed, that they can not kick us out of housing, but I am nto surprised if they find an loophole or such. he was not njp, they are just taking his rank, meaning going from corporal to lance corporal. and all on a load of bs charge. And yes they can and will do that. bc that is how it works. and just like you djdude, he used to be highly esteemed, adn now he is on the shit list. his past unit was much nicer. but alas, they wont transfer him back. I am just praying to the Great Spirit, and taking some healing tea, to calm my frustrations. I am trying to get ahold of anyone that can help us out. bc the pay they will be giving us, is just not enough for our needs. but alas some good news, in january with our tax return we are buying an used rv, and movign in there, and that should save us a ton of money. so we might get back on our feet then. just till january it is going to be a really hard thing. I am praying this complaint will not fall on deaf ears. he has done so much for the evil military, adn this is how they treat him. it is disgusting. but I guess I kinda figured it would happen sooner or later, bc that is how they work.

thanks you all. I will keep you appraised of the situation.
you are all the best. I could ask for in friends. I dont have many like you in real life.

 

aww ((((((((hugs))))))))))) be blessed

 

*hugs* I'm praying for you! Hang in there!